As a broadcast instructor part of my lessons include teaching the art of asking questions. The majority of those in attendance don't tap in. It's extremely difficult to step out and ask questions. De Fragging is asking yourself the questions then questioning the answers. We complain a lot about life. I'm told it's because it's difficult to understand. Start a De Frag journey. You'll be amazed by the personal relationship you develop with the self you've been ignoring.