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If you're feeling the weight of past trauma and struggling to heal, then you are not alone! The journey to healing from abuse and trauma is often filled with challenges, and finding the right tools to navigate this journey can be overwhelming. But what if there was a resource that could guide you through this process and help you cultivate well-being?\nIn this episode, you will be able to:\n\nExplore the transformative power of therapy in healing from abuse and trauma and reclaiming your well-being.\n\nUncover the impact of narcissism in church leadership and gain insights into navigating the complexities of this issue.\n\nDiscover the invaluable benefits of professional mental health support and how it can positively impact your healing journey.\n\nUnderstand the profound connection between attachment issues and trauma recovery and how it influences your healing process.\n\nEmbrace the role of self-regulation in effective leadership and learn how it can enhance your personal and professional growth.\n\n\nMy special guest is Dr. Chuck DeGroat\nChuck DeGroat is a professor of pastoral care and Christian spirituality at Western Theological Seminary in Holland, Michigan, where he also serves as the founding executive director of the clinical mental health counseling program. He is a licensed therapist, spiritual director, author, retreat leader speaker, and faculty member with the Soul Care Institute. As a therapist, he specializes in navigating issues of abuse and trauma, pastoral (and leadership) health, and doubt and dark nights on the faith journey. He trains clergy in handling issues of abuse and trauma, conducts pastor and planter assessments, and facilitates church consultations and investigations of abuse. Before transitioning to training and forming pastors, Chuck served as a pastor in Orlando and San Francisco. He and his wife, Sara, have been married for 30 years and have two adult daughters.\nListen to our previous episode with Chuck DeGroat on EPS 42.\nThe key moments in this episode are:\n\n00:11:03 - Faux Vulnerability in Church Leadership\n\n00:13:09 - Misuse of Self-Work for Immunity\n\n00:13:40 - Dysfunctional Dynamics in Churches\n\n00:14:58 - Toxic Leadership and Manipulation\n\n00:19:06 - Nervous System Dysregulation\n\n00:22:10 - Healing Attachment Wounds\n\n00:25:52 - Transformation and Non-Anxious Presence\n\n00:26:17 - Recognizing Patterns of Toxic Behavior\n\n00:27:24 - Accountability and Systemic Change\n\n00:29:15 - Rebuilding for the Future\n\n00:30:49 - Understanding Shame Dynamics\n\n00:35:15 - Rediscovering the Goodness of the Heart\n\n00:39:20 - Men Doing Deeper Work\n\n00:40:02 - Bullying and Women\n\n00:41:15 - Complimenting Each Other's Work\n\n00:41:39 - Encouraging Curiosity and Healing\n\n00:42:42 - Embracing Curiosity and Healing\n\n00:53:11 - Finding Healing and Freedom\n\nTrauma is not what happens to us, but what happens within. - Chuck DeGroat\n\n\nPre-order Healing What's Within by Dr. Chuck DeGroat on his website chuckdegroat.net. Join the Launch Team.\n\nJoin the Patreon community at www.patreon.com/aworldofdifference to access exclusive content, including additional insights from Dr. Chuck DeGroat.\n\nExplore additional resources recommended by Dr. Chuck DeGroat at the end of each chapter, such as Dan Allender's To Be Told: Know Your Story, Shape Your Life and Frederick Buechner's Telling Secrets.\n\nEngage in introspective and mindful practices to support your healing journey, such as deep breathing, visualization, EMDR and brainspotting.\n\nGift Healing What's Within to friends or loved ones who could benefit from the valuable tools and insights shared in the book.\n\n\nFollow the podcast here:\n\nhttps://www.aworldofdifferencepodcast.com\n\nhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/aworldofdifference/\n\nhttps://www.twitter.com/@awodpod\n\nhttps://www.youtube.com/@aworldofdifference\n\nhttps://www.facebook.com/A-World-of-Difference-613933132591673/\n\nhttps://www.instagram.com/aworldof.difference\n\nhttps://www.patreon.com/aworldofdifference\n\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices