The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

47 episodes

Each week on the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, your host Sean Jameson interviews experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you the tips and techniques you can use to improve your sex life and relationship or marriage. You'll also learn powerful insights on how to improve your dating and love life.

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#55 How To Build A Rock Solid Marriage - Nate & Kaley Klemp

Published: July 17, 2024, 5 a.m.
Duration: 47 minutes 15 seconds \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Introducing today\\u2019s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The story of how they met and got married.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why the first two years of their marriage were so challenging.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The many ways couples fight about fairness and why it causes resentment.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How they wrote the 80/80 Marriage together.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The concept of an 80/80 relationship, and how it differs from one that is 50/50.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why it\\u2019s about striving for balance and radical generosity.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Steps to creating the right mindset for an 80/80 marriage.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How to create the structure for an 80/80 relationship.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Building a bridge between mindset and structure through values.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How to take a more intentional approach to your roles as a couple.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Setting priorities and boundaries as a couple (and why it can be so liberating).

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Insights on what to do when you have an unwilling or reluctant partner.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How to approach your partner about entering an 80/80 relationship.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Nate\\u2019s new book Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World.

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Quotes:

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\\u201cWe\'re really the first generation in all of human history, striving toward equal marriage.\\xa0[0:05:39]

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\\u201cThere\'s no such thing as 160% of anything. The whole idea is [that] it doesn\'t make sense, [so] strive. And then, [with] both parties striving for 80%, you land somewhere in the space of balance.\\u201d \\xa0[0:11:18]

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\\u201cThere are no good or bad, or right or wrong, values. There are known and implicit values. When you have known, or explicit, or agreed to, values, then you have a north star, where you can build the structure of your relationship. When you have implicit values, it\'s very challenging.\\u201d \\xa0[0:23:54]

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\\u201cMost couples have never taken that step back and [have] never thought from an intentional place: \\u2018How could we redesign our roles, such that [it] really works for both of us?\\u2019\\u201d\\xa0\\xa0[0:28:05]

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\\u201cFor many couples, when even just one person shifts to 80/80, it opens up a new space for the other person, who might be the undercontributor, to contribute more and to be generous in turn.\\u201d \\xa0[0:37:11]

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Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:

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Nate Klemp

Nate Klemp on LinkedIn

Nate Klemp on X

Kaley Klemp

Kaley Klemp on LinkedIn

Kaley Klemp on X

The 80/80 Marriage

The 80/80 Marriage on Instagram

The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship

Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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#54 Building Sexual Confidence and Enhancing Intimacy With Dr. Alison Ash

Published: June 19, 2024, 5 a.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 1 second \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Introducing Dr. Alison Ash, Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of the website, TurnON.love.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Her career journey which began in sociology before she found her true passion in education.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The constant process of self-inquiry and self-discovery necessary for fulfilling sexual experiences.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What it means to have the confidence to co-create your sexual experiences.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How shame can damage our relationship to sex and our bodies.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Empathy, reassurance, and normalization.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Differentiating between guilt and shame.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Three attributes of sex positivity.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Components that make up sexual consent.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Defining boundaries according to capacity.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tips for affirming a romantic partner.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The role of self-deprecation in preventing intimacy.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How communication can enhance emotional connection during sex.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tips for creating safety to share with your partner.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What lies at the core of any sexual fantasy.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Dr. Aly\\u2019s work and different options she offers for coaching and workshops.

Quotes:

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\\u201cSociety at large is pretty bad at templating healthy intimacy skills, but it is a skill, like any skill, something we can get better at with proper instruction and practice.\\u201d\\xa0[0:02:47]

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\\u201cOne of the first things I tell folks is that sexual empowerment comes from knowing yourself.\\u201d\\xa0[0:04:26]

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\\u201cSome of the best sex comes from having a mutual shared orientation towards exploring and not having to have all the answers.\\u201d\\xa0[0:05:39]

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\\u201cSo much of feeling confident and sexually liberated, and having fulfilling sex and relationships is about uncovering the things that we feel ashamed about and moving through it.\\u201d [0:08:46]

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\\u201cA lot of institutions try to teach through shame. I think it\'s way less effective and problematic as supposed to holding somebody with love and compassion, but still accountability for mistakes.\\u201d [0:13:59]

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\\u201cAn affirmation is a compliment on steroids.\\u201d [0:21:10]

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Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:


TurnOn Love \\u2014 https://www.turnon.love/

Dr. Alison Ash on LinkedIn \\u2014 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alisonashphd/

Dr. Alison Ash on Facebook \\u2014 https://www.facebook.com/dralisonash/

Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram \\u2014 https://www.instagram.com/turnon.love/

Dr. Alison Ash on X \\u2014 https://twitter.com/turnon_love

Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse \\u2014 https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills

Sustainable Intimacy \\u2014 https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacyold

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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#53 3 Orgasm Blockers & The Importance Of Sexual Chemistry With Dr. Tara

Published: May 22, 2024, 5 a.m.
Duration: 49 minutes 28 seconds \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 An introduction to today\\u2019s guest, Dr. Tara.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tara\\u2019s background and how she became a professor of relational and sexual communication.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why Tara loves the concept of body neutrality instead of body positivity.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How sexual empowerment can solve the issue of women faking orgasms and hiding it.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tara tells us about her textbook and podcast and how she ended up on Celebs Go Dating.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The three main reasons women struggle to orgasm: physical, psychological, and relational.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why Tara believes you cannot have a successful, happy, long-term relationship without sex.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How scent contributes to sexual chemistry and why it doesn\\u2019t ever lie to us.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tara\\u2019s advice for what to do when in a sexless relationship with no chemistry.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The different categories of attraction and how it can be developed.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why breaching boundaries is so detrimental in a relationship.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The importance of chemistry and why it cannot be built from nothing.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tara speaks about the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why saying no is so liberating.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The best, easiest positions for clitoral stimulation.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why men are generally so insecure about using vibrators and sex toys.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What praise kink is and how a couple can explore it.

Quotes:

\\u201cThe solution to the inability to orgasm or even to embrace pleasure overall is sexual empowerment.\\u201d\\xa0[0:07:57]

\\u201cSo many different physical issues contribute to the inability to orgasm.\\u201d [0:14:43]

\\u201cEvery single person is entitled to what is right for them. If you\'re in a relationship that you don\'t have any sexual chemistry with your partner, it\'s your prerogative to decide if you want to do.\\u201d\\xa0[0:23:25]

\\u201cA breach of boundaries is a killer of trust.\\u201d [0:29:09]

\\u201cFor me, the most important thing that I learned in my previous relationship that you can never get unless it was there is chemistry.\\u201d\\xa0[0:33:29]

\\u201cThere is no good sex life \\u2013 without communicating, without feeling confident, without feeling comfortable in your skin.\\u201d\\xa0[0:42:04]

Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:

Luvbites by Dr. Tara \\u2014 https://www.luvbites.co/

Dr. Tara Email Address \\u2014 teamdrtara@clique-now.com

Dr. Tara on LinkedIn \\u2014 https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtaraluvbites/

Dr. Tara on Instagram \\u2014 https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/
Dr. Tara on TikTok \\u2014 https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.co

Dr. Tara on X \\u2014 https://twitter.com/luvbitesco

Sexual Communication: Research in Action \\u2014 https://books.google.co.za/books/about/Sexual_Communication.html?id=KRRVzwEACAAJ&redir_esc=y

Celebs Go Dating \\u2014 https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5993484/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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#52 Sexless Marriages, Solutions & Causes with Dr. Nazanin Moali

Published: May 15, 2024, 5 a.m.
Duration: 43 minutes 46 seconds \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Welcoming today\\u2019s guest, Dr. Nazanin Moali to the show.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Dr. Moali tells us about her background and why she became a sex therapist.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Her Farsi show and the demand for it among the Iranian population.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The definition of a sexless relationship and the main causes of it.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Infidelity causing anger and sexlessness and how to validate your partner to heal from it.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How pornography affects relationships and how to handle the effects of it.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Unresolved trauma and its contribution to a sexless relationship.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How to handle when one partner rejects the other for sex or initiation is one-sided.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Dr. Moali explains what spontaneous and responsive desire is.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The main psychological causes of erectile dysfunction in otherwise healthy men.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Some cures for chronic erectile dysfunction.

Quotes:

\\u201cMany people don\'t know there are solutions out there. Sexual health challenges are something that you can cure, you can get treatment for it. It could be even as easy as a few sessions.\\u201d[0:07:31]

\\xa0\\u201cTrauma can be an incredibly painful experience for people to have. It can really impact how our body responds to sex and sexuality. It can impact our responsiveness or lack of responsiveness.\\u201d [0:17:31]

\\u201cIf you\'re not into foreplay, you\'re not doing it correctly.\\u201d \\u2014\\xa0[0:29:24]

Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:\\xa0

Dr. Nazanin Moali on LinkedIn \\u2014 https://www.linkedin.com/in/nazanin-moali-ph-d-9623482a/

Dr. Nazanin Moali on Instagram \\u2014 https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast/

Dr. Nazanin Moali Linktree \\u2014 https://linktr.ee/oasis2care

Dr. Nazanin Moali on X \\u2014 https://twitter.com/oasis2care

Sexology Podcast \\u2014 https://sexologypodcast.com/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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#51 Painful Sex Solutions With Nora Langknecht

Published: May 8, 2024, 5 a.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 16 seconds

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#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress

Published: May 1, 2024, 5 a.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 26 seconds \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How Venus discovered cuckolding.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Her first experience of \\u2018cucking\\u2019 her partner and how it deepened their connection.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship.

\\u2022 \\xa0 \\xa0Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How to fulfill your partner\\u2019s cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems.

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Quotes:

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\\u201c[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that\'s what everybody thinks it is. It\'s actually really a kind of special loving relationship.\\u201d\\xa0[0:05:20]

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\\u201c[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else\'s piece of art.\\u201d [0:11:54]

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\\u201cThe fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound.\\u201d\\xa0[0:20:25]

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Longer Quotes:

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\\u201cIf there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it\'s okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what\'s most important is that she\'s safe, and she\'s comfortable, and that she\'s enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her.\\u201d [0:20:04]

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Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:

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Venus \\u2014 https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/

Venus Linktree \\u2014 https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress

The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast \\u2014 https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast

Venus Connections \\u2014 https://www.venusconnections.com/

Venus on X \\u2014 https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV

Venus on Instagram \\u2014 https://www.instagram.com/venuscuckoldresspodcast

Dr. Justin Lehmiller \\u2014 https://www.sexandpsychology.com/about-dr/

Tell Me What You Want \\u2014 https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958/ref

\\u2018Does Size Matter?\\u2019 Bad Girls Bible Survey \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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Other Episodes You Might Enjoy:

#31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson
https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson

#34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.
https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

#29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius
https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

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#49 Deep Throating Tips, Becoming A Hotwife & Being Confident Riding Your Man With Casey Donatello

Published: April 24, 2024, 3:59 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 3 minutes 17 seconds \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Rule-setting and the feedback process.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why it\\u2019s essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Casey\\u2019s opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job!

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Advice for building confidence while riding your man.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why Casey doesn\\u2019t edit any of her content.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Tips for women who are hoping to squirt.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Casey\\u2019s complex journey into the lifestyle.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The story behind Casey\\u2019s four books.

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Quotes:

\\u201c[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it\\u2019s hard for people to understand how three people isn\\u2019t always the same equation. But it really isn\\u2019t.\\u201d [0:05:50]

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\\u201cIt\\u2019s like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed.\\u201d [0:08:26]

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\\u201cThere\\u2019s no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It\\u2019s just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it.\\u201d\\xa0[0:19:06]

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\\u201cA lot of times, people don\\u2019t want to talk about sex when they\\u2019re having sex, but that\\u2019s the best time.\\u201d\\xa0[0:30:53]

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\\u201cIf you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don\\u2019t let somebody hurt your body because you don\\u2019t want to hurt their feelings.\\u201d [0:31:22]

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Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:

Casey Donatello \\u2014 https://caseydonatello.com/

Casey Donatello on Instagram \\u2014 https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/

Casey Donatello on X \\u2014 https://twitter.com/hotwifelife869/

In Bed Podcast\\xa0\\u2014 https://caseydonatello.com/in-bed-podcast/

In Bed with Strangers \\u2014 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CQT1R15/

Scarlet Surrenders \\u2014\\xa0https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PYX8DQB/

Scarlet Swings Higher \\u2014 \\xa0https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZVKQ3M/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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Other Episodes You Might Enjoy:

#31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson
https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson

#34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.
https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

#29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius
https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

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#48 How Trauma Affects Your Romantic Relationships With Esin Pinarli, LCSW MCAP

Published: April 15, 2024, 6:28 a.m.
Duration: 48 minutes 51 seconds \\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 An introduction to Esin Pinarli\\u2019s counseling practice.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Unpacking the buzzword, \\u2018trauma\\u2019, and how it affects all of us.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Common actions that trigger a trauma response.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The role of negativity bias.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Advice for those seeking to address their trauma.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How a therapist can support people as they unpack the experiences behind their trauma.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 The four attachment styles and how they impact our relationships.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What the collective trauma of the pandemic has done to the state of attachment.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Differentiating between introversion and the avoidant personality type.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 How codependency fits into attachment styles.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Your nervous system\\u2019s role in creating connection and attachment.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Why couples become dissatisfied with their sex lives.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 What effective communication might look like.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Cultivating \\u2018the space between\\u2019 where intimacy exists within relationships.

\\u2022\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0 Simple solutions for the process addiction that comes from porn usage.

Quotes:

\\u201cPeople always think they have to qualify for trauma. Everybody has had a certain level of embedded trauma.\\u201d \\u2014 Esin Pinarli [0:02:41]

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\\u201cWe should always be doing the work. There are just so many things in our subconscious that we are not aware of.\\u201d \\u2014 Esin Pinarli [0:10:33]

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\\u201cA therapist is somebody who will help you to make sense of what\\u2019s inside of you, and to untangle and unprocess that trauma so that it doesn\\u2019t dictate your future.\\u201d \\u2014 Esin Pinarli [0:11:37]

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\\u201cIf you don\\u2019t have enough rupture and repair, you always end up feeling disconnected from your partner.\\u201d \\u2014 Esin Pinarli [0:42:15]

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\\u201cNot only do we have a dance with our romantic partners, a cadence and a rhythm, but there\\u2019s a space between us that is where the intimacy is.\\u201d \\u2014 Esin Pinarli [0:43:13]

Links Mentioned in Today\\u2019s Episode:

Esin Pinarli on Instagram \\u2014\\xa0https://www.instagram.com/esinpinarli_lcsw/

Esin Pinarli on LinkedIn \\u2014 https://www.linkedin.com/in/esin-pinarli-73ab1722/

Eternal Wellness Counseling \\u2014 https://www.eternalwellnesscounseling.com/

Codependent No More \\u2014 https://www.amazon.com/Melody-Beattie-Codependent-Controlling-Yourself/dp/B004R125R4/

Bad Girls Bible Sex Tips Newsletter \\u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Other Episodes You Might Enjoy:

#31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson
https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson

#34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.
https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

#29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius
https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

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#47 How To Have Sex Every Day with Caitlin & Michael Doemner

Published: May 12, 2019, 11 p.m.
Duration: 24 minutes 44 seconds

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#46 BDSM 101: No 50 Shades of Grey B******t with Dan and Dawn

Published: May 5, 2019, 11 p.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 33 seconds

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#45 How A Listener Fixed Her Struggling Relationship

Published: April 28, 2019, 11 p.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 10 seconds

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#44 How A Marriage Ends A Listener Story

Published: April 21, 2019, 11 p.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 8 seconds

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#43 Cheating, Miscarriage and Abandonment A Listener Explains How She Conquered Them All

Published: April 14, 2019, 10 p.m.
Duration: 34 minutes 29 seconds

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#42 Hysterical Bonding

Published: April 7, 2019, 10 p.m.
Duration: 42 minutes 3 seconds

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#41 The Other Woman - A Listener Discovers Her Husband Got Another Woman Pregnant

Published: April 1, 2019, midnight
Duration: 24 minutes 3 seconds

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#40 When A Good Marriage Goes Bad

Published: March 25, 2019, midnight
Duration: 30 minutes 10 seconds

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#39 Better Sex Through Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto

Published: March 17, 2019, 11 p.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 22 seconds

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#38 Using Sex Toys For Breathtaking Pleasure with Annabelle Knight

Published: March 10, 2019, 11 p.m.
Duration: 28 minutes 40 seconds

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Published: March 4, 2019, midnight
Duration: 29 minutes 38 seconds

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Published: Feb. 18, 2019, midnight
Duration: 37 minutes 33 seconds

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Published: Feb. 11, 2019, 7:03 a.m.
Duration: 29 minutes 51 seconds

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Published: Feb. 4, 2019, midnight
Duration: 33 minutes 28 seconds

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Published: Jan. 28, 2019, midnight
Duration: 37 minutes 45 seconds

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Published: Jan. 21, 2019, midnight
Duration: 44 minutes 54 seconds

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#30 Incredible Sex Techniques & Tips from High Earning Sex Worker, Alice Little

Published: Jan. 14, 2019, midnight
Duration: 46 minutes 18 seconds

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#29 Squirting Orgasms, Getting Turned On, and Real Foreplay for Women with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius

Published: Jan. 7, 2019, midnight
Duration: 1 hour 1 minute 52 seconds

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Published: Dec. 31, 2018, midnight
Duration: 29 minutes 37 seconds

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Published: Dec. 21, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 28 minutes 20 seconds

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Published: Dec. 14, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 47 seconds

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Published: Dec. 7, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 25 minutes 20 seconds

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Published: Nov. 30, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 29 seconds

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Published: Nov. 23, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 47 minutes 30 seconds

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#22 Erotic Intelligence, Curing Low Libido, and Somatic Movement with Jamie Elizabeth Thompson

Published: Nov. 16, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 38 seconds

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Published: Nov. 9, 2018, 5 a.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 24 seconds

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#20 - Tantra & 7 Types of Orgasm with Nadja Cream Eriksson

Published: Nov. 2, 2018, 4 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 46 seconds

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#19: 20+ Intense Foreplay Tip & Techniques To Drive Him Wild

Published: June 6, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 12 seconds

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#18: 11 Advanced Anal Sex Techniques For More Pleasure

Published: May 30, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 28 minutes 31 seconds

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#17: 10 Dirty Talking Tips To Keep Him Obsessed With You & Only You

Published: May 23, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 5 seconds

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#16: Tough Love with David Wygant

Published: May 16, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 29 seconds

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#15 Kama Sutra With Elizabeth McGrath

Published: May 9, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 55 minutes 59 seconds

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#14 Using Vibrators & Dildos For Neighbor-Waking, Screaming Orgasms

Published: May 2, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 34 minutes 51 seconds

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Published: April 25, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 54 seconds

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#12: Squirting 101 - How To Squirt Like A Pornstar During Sex & Masturbation

Published: April 18, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 47 seconds

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Published: April 11, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 7 seconds

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Published: April 4, 2017, 4 a.m.
Duration: 16 minutes 50 seconds

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#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros

Published: March 28, 2017, 1 p.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 46 seconds

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#8: 14 Advanced Blow Job Techniques To Make It The Best He's Ever Had

Published: March 21, 2017, 2:50 p.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 42 seconds

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Published: March 14, 2017, 1:12 p.m.
Duration: 31 minutes 41 seconds

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#6: Foundation For Intense Blow Jobs - 11 Vital BJ Tips

Published: March 7, 2017, 9:06 p.m.
Duration: 31 minutes 28 seconds

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#5: BDSM, Jealousy & Pegging: Sex Q&A With Dr. Kat Van Kirk

Published: Feb. 28, 2017, 4:30 p.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 52 seconds

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Published: Feb. 21, 2017, 1:51 p.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 15 seconds

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#2: More Orgasms, How To Explore Sexual Fantasies & Why "Asking" For Sex Is A Bad Idea With Dr. Lori Buckley

Published: Feb. 14, 2017, 3:57 p.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 20 seconds

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#1: The Importance of Communication in your Relationship and Masculine v Feminine Energy with Scot McKay

Published: Feb. 8, 2017, 4:45 p.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 34 seconds

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