The relationship episode w/ Siobhan Macleod and Tom Ahern

Published: Dec. 22, 2019, 9:03 p.m.

Mindgold power couple Tom and Siobhan join the show together to talk about all things RELATIONSHIP. Whether you're swiping right or you and your partner spend Friday nights cleaning your kitchenware together, we probably have something to say that will resonate with you. If not, you'll at least get a laugh. 

05:00 Relationship Day : the importance of making time for your partner, 

09:30 Putting in the work and learning lessons from both negative and positive experiences in relationships.

14:00 Defining what it is you are looking for in a relationship and finding someone who shares your values and wants to grow with you.

19:00 #badwomen (enough said)

25:00 The importance of having difficult conversation.

30:00 Baggage is inevitable. Owning your shit and being honest about it, and being aware of your partner's triggers as well as your own.

35:00 Tinder, ghosting, and an idea for a potential app that will prevent dickhead behaviour.

41:00 Focus on the marriage, not the wedding.

46:00 Why being in a relationship IS working on yourself. 

57:00 Fertility awareness (don't freak out guys).

1:03 Attachment theory and how our cognitive development affects our adult relationships.

1:09 Recognising you and your approach to dating and finding a partner needs to change.

1:18 Some actual, serious advice: sharing a vision, physiological relaxation (this isn't sex, sorry) and love languages.