Ep. 24 Relationship Drama
b"Did you know that our relationships really only exist in our minds? Not in a voo-doo way, but in a this-is-how-we-experience each other kind of way. \\n\\nIt's in our heads.\\n\\nWhen we have a great relationship, it's because of what's going on in our mind. When we have a terrible relationship, it's also because of what's going on in our mind. (...It's how we are experiencing it...)\\n\\nHold up... I know you want to dispute this and tell me a story about someone who really wronged you, or dispute this idea with stories of horrible acts.\\n\\nI'm not saying that other people's actions aren't part of the equation; I'm only saying that if we want to feel peaceful or good or anything else when it comes to our relationships, it's an option.\\n\\nA few points discussed in this episode are:\\n(along with lots of great thoughts for feeling better in our relationships)\\n\\n1. Our relationships exist in our minds, and therefore can be anything we want them to be.\\n\\n2. Our feelings are ours, and we are the only one that feels them. Other people don't get to experience our anger or love or anything else. WE do. If we feel like a victim to our anger (like we don't have a choice in the matter), then we are giving our power to something outside of us.\\n\\n3. Love always feels the best, and it\\u2019s always an option. If you want to get there and just can\\u2019t find loving thoughts about someone, you can ask Heavenly Father to show you what makes them lovable, and He will show you.\\n\\nSay hi to me sometime! Email me at mstevenett@gmail.com and I'll say hi back. :)\\n\\n\\n--- \\n\\nSend in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/michelle48/message"