My New Year's Resolutions for 2020 are simple: I plan to be selfish, unavailable, and unreliable. For an empath, f you implement these changes into your daily routine, you will gradually start feeling a levity unlike any other. Part of being an empath means you always put everyone else first. We are innately people-pleasers. I’m tired of that stuff. Yeah some people say how it makes me beautiful. Screw that noise! Living in a big city like LA, if you’re a people pleaser you’re seen as a sucker and people will steamroll right over you, taking advantage of you. My turn! Next time I see one slice of pizza left, I’m going to take it, and stuff it down my mouth. Each man or woman for him/herself!