102: How to Get People To Change
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"The ability to control and change yourself is actually the greatest power of all."
Episode Summary:\\xa0 We often despair of the behavior of people around us - our parents, friends, children or partner - and we do our best to try and make them change. Unfortunately, forcing people to change doesn\\u2019t usually work. Listen to this episode to learn 3 simple keys that will help you bring real and lasting change to the people around you.
Some Questions I Ask:
- Do you often question how others should be living?
- What does this person mirror to you about yourself?
- What is this person showing you about yourself that you don\\u2019t want to see? That you might be resisting?
- Have you tried to really listen and understand why someone does what they do?
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In This Episode You Will Learn:
- Three keys to get people to change.
- The unpleasant effects of trying to attack people to make them change.
- The first step you need to take in order to get others to shift.
- How to know when people are ready to change.
- Why imposing your vision onto others and trying to will them to change is not an effective strategy.\\xa0