Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People? People are a reflection of yourself it doesn’t mean that you are toxic or emotionally unavailable. It just means you don’t love yourself as much as you claim you do. You have trust issues so you then attract people who aren’t trust worthy. Take accountability for your actions & realize that everyone you meet has something to teach you or knowledge. It doesn’t mean the people who are blessings in your life will leave just means they’ll give you more info about yourself. It’s smart to question everything why am I meeting this person? What’s the lesson? Am I codependent? Once you heal & do the shadow work you’ll finally get what you deserve!