[ Series; Day 3 ] Behind every good man is a good woman... what does that even mean?
The mind of a woman who is asking this question is sitting somewhere thinking that she is bad (a failure) because she doesn’t have a man. You want to be called the good woman behind the man, no matter what.
You not having a man doesn’t mean you’re intrinsically bad or a failure. I wish you would stop seeing single as a punishment, or that it's a waiting period for something greater than the life you have now.
You just are. You’re just being and the sooner you see the blessing in singleness the sooner your joy will arise.
When you’re confident in your singleness that’s how you will think. And trust I know what it is like to be a ‘good woman’ -- to believe I am-- to hear that all the time and yet and still I have zero man. Up until 2017 that use to bother me and made me lower my standards, trying to prove ‘see I’m a good woman’ -- now I am a good woman period and my actions shows that I believe it. Yes sometimes I still have those thoughts but now that I’ve gone on a true self love journey I stop myself well before I play out that tired 'ride-or-die' narrative.
Question for you; Why do you think where you are in life right now is bad? Why do you feel where you are right now is bad?
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