EP 511: Avoid This Pitfall on Your Path to Growth

Published: May 18, 2021, 5:22 p.m.

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Ram Dass \\u2014 \\u2018If you think you are enlightened; go home for Thanksgiving.\\u2019

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I love this quote as much for its wonderful humor as for its wisdom and brilliance.

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Because of the historical subcontext within which many people in our lives hold us, as we change through the practice of Mindfulness and Compassion exercises, those around us don\\u2019t always see our change and, when they treat us as \\u2018the same old us\\u2019, it can be triggering.

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Like majorly triggering!

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In today\\u2019s episode, I describe this phenomenon as a series of concentric rings that represent the depth and longevity of our personal relationships:

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As you move through this journey to the well-being and happiness that will help you thrive in your life, having someone close to you, who knows the work you\\u2019re doing, can be very helpful.

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Whether a dharma (Meditation) center, a friend or two, a spouse, or even a coach; having someone in your life who can reflect the practice and its impact is key to your success in making the changes you\\u2019re trying to make.

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So if you\\u2019re curious as to what meeting with a coach is like - and it\\u2019s probably not what you think it is! - here is a chance to experience a coaching session for free.

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Just click this link to book a day and time on my calendar:

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https://calendly.com/artburns/45-min-coaching-session

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Lastly, if you\\u2019re wondering what a meditation center is like, you can try an online version of one right from your phone or computer.

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On Wednesday evenings, at 7:00 pm MST, I host a group session that you can join for free or donation. Just click here to register:

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https://www.meetup.com/learning-to-surf-talks-on-buddhism-meditation-mindfulness/events/vhrtfsycchbzb/

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