EP 477: How to Cultivate the Skill of Happiness - Level II

Published: March 31, 2021, 5:29 p.m.

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As we dig deeper into our natural state of happiness, this second level really relies on flexibility.

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This second level of happiness is based on a sense of stability and grounding in the world around us and the feeling that we are on pace with our goals and integrity.

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But this doesn\\u2019t mean that only people who fulfill lifelong goals can be happy!

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In fact, it\\u2019s quite the opposite.

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This level of happiness is more about adjusting and redefining our goals as we make our way through life.

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In today\\u2019s episode, I illustrate this through the story of an imaginary law student who realizes that the road to becoming the lawyer they\\u2019d always wanted to be comes with a price that is too high:

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So it\\u2019s really more about adjusting the goals to match our lives.

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You might be thinking that this means we should abandon our goals so we won\\u2019t find ourselves out of pace with them.

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But nothing could be further from the truth!

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Goals are very healthy.

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It\\u2019s all about awareness of these goals and what they truly mean to us.

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Like Plato and Socrates said: \\u201cAn unexamined life is a life not worth living.\\u201d

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