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Published: March 4, 2021, 7:07 p.m.

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For most of my life, I always thought that happiness happened in one of two ways:

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Either you were simply born happy.

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Or you had such a \\u2018good life\\u2019 that you were happy by default.

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But, as I\\u2019ve told you before, shortly after I started practicing mindfulness, I found myself being happy for no reason at all.

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Recently, I went about searching for the answer to a simple, yet significant question:

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What is happiness?

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You know me\\u2026 I wanted some hard science to help me understand this state that is often very elusive.

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And science did I find!

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It turns out that psychologists define happiness as having three distinct levels.

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The first level is simple: happiness on this level is defined by simply having more positive emotions (joy, excitement, gratitude, etc.) than negative emotions (anger, sadness, shame, etc.)

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The second level is a bit more nuanced: here, happiness is defined by the level of satisfaction one has in their position in life.

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That is to say: feeling that you have stability in your life and are grounded in your integrity as a person (defined by you) and that you feel relatively on course to meet your goals. (Again, goals that are defined, and adjusted, by you.)

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The third level of happiness has to do with a sense of purpose and meaning in your life.

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This last level is all about being connected to something higher than yourself.

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In today\\u2019s episode, I go into deep detail on each of these levels, or components, of happiness:

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But more importantly, I illustrate how each of these levels of happiness is a skill that can be trained the same way as any other skill: Through practice.

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If you have any questions or would like help in connecting to something bigger than yourself, please click here to schedule a complimentary meeting with me:

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https://calendly.com/d/f68n-qhv6/coaching-session

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Here\\u2019s the link to this Saturday\\u2019s guided meditation and discussion:

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https://www.meetup.com/learning-to-surf-talks-on-buddhism-meditation-mindfulness/events/sfjpfsyccfbjb/

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Here\\u2019s the link to The Learning to Surf Podcast:

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https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/learning-to-surf-talks-on-buddhism-dharma-riding-waves/id1512499997

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And if you\\u2019re interested in becoming a patron you can join here:

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https://www.patreon.com/artburns

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