EP 359: Healing and Showing Up with Compassion

Published: Oct. 12, 2020, 11:08 p.m.

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In our interpersonal experiences, we are often triggered by the way we perceive other people treating us.
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\\nOur fear-based stress response puts us in a state in which we are not available for our life.
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\\nWe\\u2019re not available for our loved ones (especially our kids!)
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\\nWe\\u2019re not available for our own happiness or we\\u2019ll being either.
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\\nThe physiological reason for the stress response is the way we perceive the other person\\u2019s motivation.
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\\nIf we\\u2019re driving down the road and someone cuts us off, we might spend a huge amount of time immersed in negative emotions like anger and resentment, arising from fear.
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\\nBut what if we realize that this person is rushing to the hospital because someone they love had been hurt?
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\\nNow we have a much different emotional response, right?
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\\nWell, the truth is that in almost every instance, people are doing things because they believe those things will reduce their suffering or increase their happiness.
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\\nAnd when we can perceive every interpersonal experience with this assumption, we will stay clear of the emotional trigger and stress that take away our happiness.
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\\nYou can develop this assumption as a habit through the simple practice of compassion.
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\\nWould you like to learn how?

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