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This episode is about getting past the fear and pain of rejection. Today\\u2019s caller, Lisa, is triggered when she feels not chosen or rejected by others and would like to know why. Christine connects some powerful dots that may help you connect some dots in your life.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode381]
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Sometimes we adopt the behavior of a parent we empathize with or a parent we felt sad for. So, when we realize we are tender about something, first, we need to take 100% responsibility for it. Then look at what we need to heal and recognize we need to have self-love and self-care to work with our wounding.
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Repetitive triggers or sets of feelings that keep coming up over and over again are pointing us toward healing. Like our bodies letting us know we are sick by getting a fever or runny nose. Our repetitive triggers let us know there is an unresolved wound that needs healing.
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Two important things to remember:
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When our pain, experience, or our trigger feeling doesn\\u2019t really match the reality of what is going on, it always means we are time traveling. It means we always are being reminded of people \\u2014 usually from our childhood \\u2014 when our current reaction really doesn\\u2019t match the circumstances. Rejection is painful but a lot of times we are not being rejected.
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And, we can\\u2019t just do our inner work and then tolerate behavior that isn\\u2019t great. A lot of people fall into the trap of believing it is their wounding and not letting others take responsibility for their actions. As we heal, we learn to ask for what we need, speak our truth, and authentically self-express.
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Check out Christine\\u2019s Reflect and Release 2022 podcast and the Call in the New Year podcast being released the first week of January.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Lisa\\u2019s Question:
Lisa would like guidance on how to overcome her fear of rejection.
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Lisa\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
Christine Hassler \\u2014 Join the Free Over It and On With It Community
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
Assist@ChristineHassler.com \\u2014 Males who want to be on the show
Jill@ChristineHassler.com \\u2014 For information on any of my services
Get on the Waitlist to be coached on the show.
Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.
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