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This episode is about getting the love we deserve. Today\\u2019s caller, Rachel, is in an issue-based relationship with a partner who doesn\\u2019t make her a priority. An issue-based relationship is when unresolved issues bring two people together. These relationships tend to be stressful, on-again-off-again, and come with anxiety, but the physical attraction is often very strong. Whether or not you are in a relationship you will get some gems from this episode.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode362]
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Do you want the love of your life to be someone who causes you anxiety, who doesn\\u2019t make compromises for you, or who doesn\\u2019t make you a priority? Don\\u2019t you want better? We all deserve better than that. The problem is we get the love we think we deserve, not the love we actually deserve.
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Many of us find ourselves in a position where we know something isn\\u2019t good for us. We know we want, and deserve better, but we just can\\u2019t let it go. It\\u2019s a form of addiction. It\\u2019s codependency. It is having our unmet needs tickled just enough that we go back for more. But, it\\u2019s not love. It\\u2019s not a true connection or partnership.
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Something that can trip us up and make us suffer way more than we need to is when we have a rose-colored glasses tint on the way we see things. Because, when we do, we are more in love with an ideal than we are with the reality of things.
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When we experience a love that is not based on unresolved issues, it makes us glad we left the relationships that were based on our issues. Love that comes from a healthy place is amazing!
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If someone isn\\u2019t going out of their way to make you a priority, it is a red flag.
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I\\u2019m happy to announce that my next Women\\u2019s Retreat will be held in Austin from October 7\\u20129, 2022. Go to ChristineHassler.com/signatureretreat or listen to my Coaches Corner with Jill to get more information about this life-changing opportunity. The early-bird registration promo ends on Sept. 1, 2022.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Rachel\\u2019s Question:
Rachel has an on-again-off-again relationship with someone she considers the love of her life and would like guidance on.
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Rachel\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
Christine Hassler \\u2014 Join the Free Over It and On With It Community
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
Assist@ChristineHassler.com \\u2014 Males who want to be on the show
Jill@ChristineHassler.com \\u2014 For information on any of my services
Get on the Waitlist to be coached on the show.
Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.
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