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This episode is about understanding why we do the things we do and how to heal. Today\\u2019s caller, Donna, endured traumatic experiences as a child. She eats for comfort because she was not nurtured or prioritized as a child. People don\\u2019t start emotionally eating if they grew up in a family where they felt safe to express their emotions. We talk about two great actionable tools you can use if you struggle with emotional or binge eating, or not feeling like you have worth.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode358]
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Every little child needs to feel nurtured and soothed when they have feelings. When we have a super-traumatized part of ourselves we need to figure out a way to flood the system with a sensory experience. Some people choose drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, and some choose food. Food offers a flood of sensory experiences so it helps to keep the trauma hidden.
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It is amazing how much we judge ourselves for the challenges we have. We often don\\u2019t understand why it is not easy to change or do things differently when what we are doing is completely reasonable based on our trauma. It\\u2019s not that it is okay to use trauma as a scapegoat for the rest of our lives, however, we must acknowledge our story and understand that, of course, we are dealing with things the way we do.
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We must have compassion for ourselves before we can change. No one has ever healed in the energy of judgment. No one has ever healed by beating the crap out of themselves. No one has ever healed believing they are still broken. We want to honor and acknowledge our past and understand that it makes sense that it is difficult or harder for us to change.
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The only way to break out of the pattern of not feeling like we are a priority is to find the source, then perform the daily practice of looking in the mirror, being present with ourselves, and saying I love you.
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The Inner Child workshop is a tool that helps us reconnect with our little one and facilitates healing. Find the recorded version of the Inner Child workshop here.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Donna\\u2019s Question:
Donna would like guidance on how to make herself a priority.
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Donna\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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