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This episode is about communicating with someone who has more of a controlling and rigid personality structure. Today\\u2019s caller, Danielle, would like to reduce the friction between her and her husband when it comes to their parenting priorities. I coach Danielle on how to work with her husband to be a little less rigid and less controlling when it comes to her sons and when it comes to herself. And, how to get her sons to express themselves emotionally.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode345]
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When we are butting heads with someone, trying to get them to see our side of something will never work. Having curiosity and compassion for the other person\\u2019s model of the world and the way they see things is the way forward.
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A lot of men, boys, and those who identify as masculine have been conditioned to suppress, to be less emotional, and that their value is the security and legacy they can provide or the money they can provide. Oftentimes emotional connection, the ability to be in their heart, the ability to trust, or to have more of a connection with their feminine side is difficult because there has been so much attention on the other.
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Remember, when someone says that something made them stronger it generally doesn\\u2019t mean they now have the courage to be vulnerable and to seek help, to think deep into their wounds, to dig into their generational patterns to transform their experience.
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When children are not raised with the ability to have autonomy, sovereignty, and speak up for themselves, it can go one of two ways. Either they become overly compliant and get pushed around or they become overly aggressive because they are trying to get their power back.
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A lot of us can relate to us having differences in the way we see the world and what we think is right. Anytime we can heal a division in our home or within our families, it has a ripple effect elsewhere. So, at a time when it seems there is a lot of division, finger-pointing, and judgment in the world, shifting this in the home helps to collectively shift it.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Danielle\\u2019s Question:
Danielle would like to know how she can enforce boundaries with her children while respecting her husband\\u2019s role in the family.
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Danielle\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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