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This episode is about making self-honoring choices without feeling selfish. Today\\u2019s caller, Pooja, has a beautiful relationship with her parents but is torn between pursuing her dream of being a life coach and staying in the U.S. or moving home to be closer to her aging parents who miss her. This episode will help you to get out of limbo and make decisions that feel selfish.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode327]
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We want to make choices that are aligned with us versus a \\u201cshould.\\u201d Choices made from \\u201cshould\\u201d create a higher likelihood of resentment. We either end up resenting the people who pulled us to make the choice or we resent ourselves for making the choice because we feel like we betrayed and abandoned ourselves, which is never a good situation.
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Whenever you feel the pull of both duty and desire, ask yourself what the most self-honoring choice is, because when we make the most self-honoring choice we are less likely to feel resentment later. We show up more authentically in our relationships when we make choices that are self-honoring.
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Choose something, start to take steps forward, and then if you need to choose something else, you can.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Pooja\\u2019s Question:
Pooja is transitioning careers and is not yet ready to return to India to be with her aging parents. She would like guidance on whether to return or to follow her dream.
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Pooja\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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