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This episode is about taking the pressure off of self-imposed timelines. Today\\u2019s caller, Elizabeth, has a sense of urgency. She feels she needs to get into a relationship and have children. But, at the same time, she is experiencing rejection, ghosting, and men leaving. She thinks she is doing something wrong.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode318]
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For whatever reason, we put ridiculous timelines on ourselves. Who knows where they come from society, parents, or our inner critic. We also put unnecessary pressure on ourselves to be or to achieve certain things. And, all the while we\\u2019re not really paying attention to what we truly need to be learning. We miss out on the magic that can come from being present and in the moment.
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And, enmeshment or co-dependence means that we are a little bit too reliant or dependent on another person to make us feel a certain way. We all want a mother to be the constant source of love and nurturing but we also want a mother to let us go on our way or let us suffer and find our own way.
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If we have someone who always rescues us, how do we ever learn to rescue ourselves?
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If you are a woman looking for a man and put pressure on yourself to be in a relationship, the holidays can be challenging. So, starting late November or early December, join Stefanos and me for our Be the Queen program. This upcoming event is the last event until next year. Go to ChristineHassler.com/BetheQueen for more information.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Elizabeth\\u2019s Question:
Elizabeth feels she is the reason her relationships don\\u2019t work out.
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Elizabeth\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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