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This episode is about calming an anxious or hypervigilant mind. Today\\u2019s caller, Demi, has a pattern of obsessive-compulsive thinking, anxiety, and a worst-case scenario mindset. She would like guidance on how to calm her mind and be more compassionate with herself. It is a very human trait to worry and have anxiety, especially for people who grew up in a chaotic home.
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[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode292]
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One of the ways we can deal with hypervigilance or anxiety is by witnessing it. It is important we do our best not to make it wrong and accept it. The moment we realize it is not us, the moment we recognize it as OCD, our inner critic, or when we can name it, it gives us a sense of control. It makes it feel as if it is not a runaway train. That\\u2019s how we begin to calm down.
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The pattern of not being able to relax but also feeling like you are not doing enough is caused by the emotion underneath the hypervigilance we don\\u2019t want to feel. And, with hypervigilance comes increased sensitivity. Increased sensitivity usually means more connection to intuition, compassion, and empathy.
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People who grew up in a chaotic home may have a hard time relaxing because often, that was the calm before the storm. Having an emotional release with no judgment is an important part of working with this.
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If you know someone who isn\\u2019t able to calm down or \\u201cjust not think\\u201d about something it is important to have sensitivity and compassion for them because it can be maddening for the person dealing with anxiety or OCD to be told to calm down when the pattern is playing out.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Demi\\u2019s Question:
Demi has struggled with overthinking and FOMO since her teen years and would like guidance on how to calm herself.
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Demi\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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