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This is a call about imposter syndrome and feeling worthy. Today\\u2019s caller, Odysseus, feels that time is running out for him to have a deep, loving relationship or to have the career he desires. He would like guidance on how to \\u2018fix\\u2019 his pattern of stopping and starting things. We work through his limiting beliefs and discuss ways he can begin accepting himself.
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[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode243]
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A lot of times imposter syndrome comes from having competing intentions. We have our grown-up conscious self who wants to go out and help people, be a visionary, and have a big business but then we\\u2019ve got this younger part of us, our inner child or adolescent, who feels like they\\u2019re going to get rejected and doesn\\u2019t feel safe. It holds us back and that\\u2019s why we often feel like we\\u2019re taking one step forward and one step back.
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And, for all of you that use words like quitter, lazy, self-sabotage \\u2014 all those kinds of things \\u2014 please don\\u2019t call yourself those names anymore. Those patterns are protective patterns that think that they\\u2019re doing you good so you need to understand them rather than hate on them and judge them and think to change them.
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In many ways, it can be harder for men to connect with their inner child. But both men and women have a little child inside of them and he or she doesn\\u2019t want the shutdown, old-school masculine or the overwhelmed, unsupported feminine parent. It wants a loving present parent. So, give yourself that gift.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Odysseus\\u2019s Question:
Odysseus would like guidance about a relationship and his finances and career.
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Odysseus\\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
Christine Hassler \\u2014 Join the Free Over It and On With It Community
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
Assist@ChristineHassler.com
Jill@ChristineHassler.com \\u2014 For information on any of my services.
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