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Today\\u2019s episode is about moving from being single to being in a relationship. I coach Alex on uncovering fears and limiting beliefs that can keep us from being in a relationship, or anything we truly want. When we desire something, and it does not manifest in our life, we have a tendency to blame ourselves, do a spiritual bypass, or mentally obsess about what we need to change and fix about ourselves to make it manifest. Often, these strategies do not work. What does work is taking a deep and honest look at why not having what we want, is actually what we want. Consciously we want something but there is a hidden fear or limiting belief, that is creating a block. For Alex, it was her fear of rejection. Not being in a relationship feels safer for her. It doesn\\u2019t matter how much she desires something, if part of her is scared to have it, it\\u2019s hard, if not impossible, to manifest it. This is very different approach than the dating advice we often hear. A relationship is not a symbolic trophy of self-love. If you are single and want to be in a relationship, ditch the apps, the dating columns, and relationship advice for a while, and do some of the things I encouraged Alex to do. Get honest about what really scares you in having what you want. *Coaches \\u2014 Notice I didn\\u2019t coach Alex into making a plan to date differently, to love herself more, or to step more into her feminine. Be willing to let go of trying to find a fix-it solution for your clients. Instead, guide them to discovering what is in their way. If your intention for the new year is to connect with a tribe of like-minded people, and to feel and act more confident, joining my Inner Circle will assist you with both. The Inner Circle is a membership community, where you get access to one-on-one coaching calls, my customized, guided meditations and visualizations, and lifestyle practices. E-mail Jill@ChristineHassler.com, with any questions you may have. There are only 3 spots left for my Women\\u2019s Spring Retreat March 10-12. Sign up today, so you don\\u2019t miss out. \\xa0 Consider/Ask Yourself: \\u25cf Are you craving a relationship but not having much luck with dating? \\u25cf Do feel conflicted about having a relationship? \\u25cf Do you judge yourself, or think something is wrong with you, because you are single? \\u25cf Is there anything in your life, which is not manifesting, but you don\\u2019t know why not? \\xa0 Alex\'s Question: Alex has reached a phase in her life where she thinks she would like to be in a relationship, but is not sure why she hasn\\u2019t drawn in a romantic partner. \\xa0 Alex\'s Key Insights and Ahas: \\u25cf She feels as if she is always pursuing dating. \\u25cf She believes she isn\\u2019t doing something correctly when it comes to dating. \\u25cf She is afraid any relationship she gets into will not be successful. \\u25cf She fears rejection. \\u25cf She knows she is a great catch but may not 100% believe it. \\u25cf She feels suffocated when she is overwhelmed by anything. \\u25cf She could be scared of herself. \\u25cf She feels with her head instead of her heart. \\xa0 How to Get Over It and On With It: \\u25cf She needs to write out guidelines for what she wants to feel in a relationship. \\u25cf She needs to be willing to be vulnerable, and open up her heart completely. \\u25cf She should incorporate a meditation and visualization practice into her life. \\u25cf She should drop the persona she created to keep herself safe, and let herself be truly seen. \\xa0 Assignments: \\u25cf Ditch the list of everything you want to attract in your life. Work instead to identify the fears that may be in your way. \\u25cf Be vulnerable. \\u25cf If there is something you want in life, but it\\u2019s not manifesting, it may be time to reach out to a coach. There are two spots open for private clients. It\\u2019s an investment of both time and money. Email Jill@christinehassler.com for more information. \\xa0 Sponsor: Daily Energy \\u2014 Get 30% off of Daily Energy. It\\u2019s the simplest hack you can do for your life this year. \\xa0 Resources: "Being Single is Not a Disorder" Blog Post Christine Hassler Christine Hassler Podcasts Find me on Snapchat @chrishassler @christinhassler on Twitter @christinehassler on Instagram Christine@christinehassler.com Assist@ChristineHassler.com - Send your questions to Christine anytime. Christine\\u2019s Books \\u25cf Expectation Hangover \\u25cf 20 Something. 20 Everything