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Collectively we are all going through a rebalancing of masculine and feminine energies, not only in what it means to be a man or a woman, but what it means to be human. We are just moving into rebalancing this energy so masculine and feminine energies can be in flow together. While women struggle to find their place in the masculine energy, men struggle to fit into more feminine things, such as being vulnerable or pursuing more creative endeavors that may feel less manly. This is not a time to be discouraged. We are all longing for belonging and connection. This episode is about questioning the old paradigms and rules. Today\\u2019s caller, Jake, thinks he is stuck, but from my point of view he is at a crossroads. Will he continue to let old programming and belief systems drive him, or will he make a commitment to move past the fear of old paradigms, and step into his full potential? During the call, I didn\\u2019t want to take Jake down the road of investigating his past, because he had already spent too much time analyzing the past and worrying about the future. Jake said he had an easy-going upbringing without a lot of drama or trauma. Often, feeling that degree of comfort as a child makes it harder to take risks as an adult, because we don\\u2019t have enough experiential evidence to recover from failure, risks, and things that scare us. We have to stop asking ourselves why, why, why. We don\\u2019t have to self-analyze ourselves to death. We need to be aware of the patterns and self-limiting beliefs, so we can shift them. We all need to step up into our full potential, and not allow outdated paradigms hold us back. Men, it is ok to be vulnerable, to talk about your doubts, and to admit to confusion about who you are, and how to find your purpose. \\xa0 Consider/Ask Yourself: \\u25cf Are you a man, or with a man, who is questioning his career path or purpose? \\u25cf Is fear something that is stopping you? \\u25cf Do you relate to sabotaging yourself? \\xa0 Jake \'s Question: Jake feels drawn toward another career change. He wants to know how to get out of his own head to move forward. \\xa0 Jake \'s Key Insights and Aha\\u2019s: \\u25cf He is sabotaging himself. \\u25cf He has competing intentions. \\u25cf He has a propensity to not follow through. \\u25cf He battles with fear and low self-worth. \\u25cf He has time management issues. \\u25cf He has created motion toward what he wants by putting himself out there. \\u25cf He is afraid he won\\u2019t live up to his full potential. \\xa0 How to Get Over It and On With It: \\u25cf He should invest in a coach. \\u25cf He should read The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida, and other personal development books. \\u25cf He should work on shifting his belief system and get clear about what his vision is. \\u25cf Over the next 40 days, he should do 10 things that get him out of his comfort zone. \\u25cf He should make a schedule for himself and stick to it. \\xa0 Assignments and Takeaways: \\u25cf Go out and engage in behavior which pulls you out of your comfort zone, to develop trust in yourself. \\u25cf Commit to rewiring your brain. Visit NeuroGym to learn more. \\u25cf Stop obsessing about what you think is a liability. \\u25cf Show up fully for yourself, be your own word. Make commitments and don\\u2019t break them. If you do break them, re-negotiate and start again. \\xa0 Sponsor: Audible - Free audiobook download and a 30-day free trial. \\xa0 Resources: Christine Hassler - Book a session to be on the show! Christine Hassler Podcasts Christine Hassler Free E-book Find me on Snapchat @chrishassler @christinhassler on Twitter @christinehassler on Instagram Christine@christinehassler.com NeuroGym