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Today\\u2019s caller, Mia, is dealing with sexual harassment from her boss at a newly acquired job and she is scared to stand up for herself. This situation is in no way Mia\\u2019s fault. While listening, I want you to take note of your reaction to what Mia shares. Does it make you angry? Does it trigger anything in your past? If you react to anything she shares, reach out for help and support. Reaching out for help is the only way to get out of a toxic situation. If you are in a situation in which you feel you are being abused or harassed in some way, please do not keep it a secret. It\\u2019s important not to allow judgment to blind us from seeing the learning in a situation. Sexual harassment is one of those things that can trigger a lot of judgment. From a spiritual perspective, there is no good, bad, right or wrong. Being disrespected is not something to accept in the name of love or spirituality. However, going into blame mode doesn\\u2019t solve anything either.\\xa0 Our relationship with ourselves, from our self-talk to self-perception to our daily habits, directly impacts the people we attract and how people in our lives treat us.\\xa0 If we want to change the way people treat us, we need to change ourselves first. Coach\'s Tip - The reason I didn\\u2019t start off with taking legal action is because it would have been judgmental and highly reactionary. I needed to do some detective work first, to see if this situation was bringing up unresolved issues that were coming up to heal, which is what was happening in Mia\\u2019s case. I invite you to join me for my retreat in magical Bali which includes meditation, yoga, one-on-one coaching and the opportunity to meet soul friends. There are only 2 reservations left. E-mail Jill@ChristineHassler.com for information on how to join any of my events or business programs. \\xa0 Consider/Ask Yourself: \\u25cf Is there or has there been someone you felt disrespected or harassed by? \\u25cf Do you hold back from standing up for yourself, because you don\\u2019t want to make waves? \\u25cf Are you in an unhealthy situation, but staying in it for money or job security? \\u25cf Are there unresolved issues from your past that are haunting your present? \\xa0 Mia\'s Question: Mia is uncomfortable in her new job because her boss is sexually harassing her. She would like to know why she may be attracting men who are disrespectful to her throughout her life.\\xa0 \\xa0 Mia\'s Key Insights and Aha\\u2019s: \\u25cf Her father didn\\u2019t show emotions towards her \\u25cf She is the first woman from her family to work for a corporation \\u25cf She may believe that as a woman, she has to behave differently than a man \\u25cf She doesn\\u2019t trust men\\xa0 and doesn\\u2019t feel safe with them \\u25cf Her self-esteem took a hit after her last relationship \\xa0 How to get over it and on with it: \\u25cf She needs to update what she believes about men \\u25cf She should stand up for herself if she feels disrespected in anyway \\u25cf She needs to be in an environment where she is encouraged and supported \\xa0 Assignments and Takeaways: \\u25cf If you feel you are in a situation in which you are being harassed in any way, do not be silent. Seek out some kind of professional support and document what is happening. \\u25cf If feeling disrespected is a theme in your life, take a look at your relationship with yourself. How can you shift how you treat yourself, so that consequently other people start treating you differently? \\u25cf Do you need to set boundaries with some people in your life, so you feel more respected? \\xa0 Sponsor: Onnit Wellness - Receive a 10% discount on your purchase when you order through this link. Audible - Free audiobook download and a 30-day free trial. \\xa0 Resources: Christine Hassler Christine Hassler Podcasts Secret Sauce Training Series Christine Hassler Free E-book @chrishassler on Snapchat @christinhassler on Twitter @christinehassler on Instagram Christine@christinehassler.com Jill@christinehassler.com Updo Cure \\xa0 \\xa0 \\xa0 \\xa0 \\xa0 \\xa0 \\xa0 \\xa0 kybc7qyb