02: Issue Based Relationships with Eileen
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When Eileen called she said she wanted to move past the breakup of a 3-year relationship. The relationship ended abruptly and she was still searching for closure from the other person. Knowing the purpose of any relationship is for healing and growth, and not happily ever after, we worked through the issue based relationship Eileen had and what the relationship may have taught her about herself. Listen in as Eileen discovers herself in the present and works to nurture her inside reality. Consider/Ask Yourself:
Are there any unresolved hurts from previous relationships you are carrying around?
Can you see how you have drawn romantic relationships in to help fill a void?
Do you feel like you can\\u2019t move forward in life because you are stuck in the past? Eileen\\u2019s Question:
Eileen is ready to move on from a past relationship but doesn\\u2019t know what steps to take. She also is seeking closure with the other person, she didn\\u2019t feel she received when the relationship ended abruptly. Eileen\\u2019s Key Insights and Aha\\u2019s:
\\u25cf She doesn\\u2019t trust herself with making decisions
\\u25cf Certain qualities eroded during her relationship
\\u25cf She felt somewhat addicted to the relationship
\\u25cf Her past life includes a pattern of chasing love
How to get over it and on with it:
\\u25cf Recognize your soul is ready to heal past issues
\\u25cf Let go of any belief that the relationship could have worked out
\\u25cf Reassure your younger self there is nothing she has to do to earn love
\\u25cf Never underestimate the power of doing the invisible, internal things Tools and Takeaways:
\\u25cf Write a letter and start with Dear Name,
\\xa0\\u25cb I\\u2019m saying goodbye because ...
\\xa0\\u25cb I learned ...
\\xa0\\u25cb I forgive you for ...
\\xa0\\u25cb I forgive myself for ...
\\xa0\\u25cb Thank you for ...
\\u25cf Write a letter to reassure your younger self
\\u25cf Commit to 40 days of connection/forgiveness work
\\u25cf Acknowledging your growth and your blessings \\xa0 Resources: Christine Hassler @christinhassler
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