Lead with Love with Ryan Hartley - Episode 239
If we could all write our own love story. Would it have a happy ending? Probably not. Because often we only remember the pain. But, there are people out there who are fighting for a happy ending, who continue to write and now use their stories to help others. You're about to hear more from one of those folks. Ryan Hartley knows the heartache and scars that come from abandonment.
In this episode, we learn to Lead FOR LOVE and not from Love. There are no shortcuts to success, some days we have to let our story write itself out but it doesn’t have to be all about pain. Pain can give us clarity if we listen to our hearts but not everyone has to go through it. Find out why Ryan believes this.
One of the most inspirational speakers who has ever shared his story on this show. Through the course of his story, Ryan teaches us lessons in compassion and vulnerability and shows us an intimate side of it. It challenges the notion that while there isn’t always a happy ending, we always have a choice to shape our lives and go where we are loved.
We must fill our cups first in order to share from a place of abundance. As long as we are taught to LEAD with LOVE, there really is no such thing as failure.
We write our own life stories. As men on purpose, we do not shy away from Love, we embrace them. Join and learn with us how to lead with Love from these other episodes 173 and 209
In this episode, you will learn about
02:12 - Ryan’s pain of abandonment
03:44 - Never asked for help
04:17 - Why do people do naughty things
06:20 - Parenting & leadership journey
07:03 - Heart-centered
09:45 - We all have pain
10:31 - I go where I’m loved
14:23 - Leading for Love, not from Love
16:43 - Started listening to my heart
18:54 - Faith and Leading from Love, not for Love
20:07 - Power of Choice - I get to choose where I go
25:51 - I got the clarity of my purpose through pain
31:10 - Do we have to go through pain?
33:34 - When we get to help others overcome
39:54 - Fill the cup ourselves first
44:35 - Heaven or Hell
49:40 - Doubting who we are
50:30 - Taking responsibility for your life
54:20 - Discipline = Freedom & devotion = fulfillment
56:41 - Marriage counseling and the origin of Ian’s coaching
57:58 - Extreme ownership
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