098: Choice and Voice: Five Communications Questions to Win the Room with Dr. Michelle Deering

Published: March 28, 2022, 8 a.m.

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How is your mother-daughter connection going right now? Or perhaps a better question would be, how do you want to improve and nurture a meaningful connection with your daughter/s?\\xa0

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We all know what it\\u2019s like. It starts with a vision of what you want your relationship to look like. Then years later, your teenage daughter starts slamming doors and they hate you. They\\u2019re 18 all of a sudden \\u2013 and you know nothing. You then realize that the vision of what you wanted already came to pass and that has now carried over into adulthood.\\xa0

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One of the most essential things that helped me establish a more loving and accepting connection with my daughter is by making that choice to empower my daughter to have a voice. And Dr. Michelle Deering has helped me transform the way I connect with my daughter.\\xa0

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Today, Michelle is going to shed some light on how you can restore and bring back beautiful relationships with your daughters, which is also applicable to all your other relationships, whether personal or in business. She\\u2019s going to discuss the five communication questions to win the room and her impact on the world and relationships in your world will change your life.

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Michelle is a relationship expert and a graduate of Brown University. She\\u2019s a licensed psychologist and best-selling author who has worked in many Fortune 500 companies as well as the big 10 universities. A speaker and training professional in the higher education space, you\'ll find her speaking at conferences all over the world through her consulting business.\\xa0

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In this episode, you will hear:

  • The power of the pause
  • The Confirmation question - creating a warm environment
  • The Couch question - connecting with someone\\u2019s emotions
  • The Check-in question - asking if they feel you heard them
  • The Coy question - establishing a new way of respecting boundaries
  • The Contract question - giving input on where they want to go with the conversation
  • Finding opportunities and moments of connection
  • Allowing your kids to feel and experience the pain
  • A look into Michelle\\u2019s workshops and courses

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Supporting Resources:

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Episode 43: How to Formulate New Patterns to Transform Your Relationships with Michelle Deering

https://marissanehlsen.com/llr043/

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Michelle\\u2019s Workshops and Courses:

Conflict 2 Closeness Mom Mentorship Circle

https://www.curativeconnections.com/the-conflict-2-closeness-mom-mentorship-circle\\xa0

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Get Your Daughter Talking Now

www.getyourdaughtertalkingnow.com\\xa0

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Michelle\\u2019s book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07CFPHZZ4/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

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Michelle\\u2019s website: https://www.curativeconnections.com/

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Michelle\\u2019s podcast: Mother Daughter Connections https://www.curativeconnections.com/mother-daughter-connections-pod/

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