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b'We\\u2019ve discussed many different topics. Here is a great real life example of overcoming adversity, which bring many topics together. This particular episode and its example brings in many different pieces that we\\u2019ve had in the past and shows a great example of goals, ensuring the drive to succeed; hitting a plateau, striving and obtaining super success \\u2013 all of the things that most of us want to do. This also is why and where we stop.\\nAaron Curry, one of the top linebackers entering NFL ever. You need to know why he failed and how he rebounded for your life lessons\\nLet me get on with it by first saying and introducing a football player, Aaron Curry. He was a tremendous athlete, one of the top prospects as linebacker for a long, long time. As an example, linebackers in general are not taken early on in the draft; there\\u2019s just so many of them. I think there\\u2019s only been four times, that somebody has been drafted as a linebacker in the top 10. He was taken number four overall. Let\\u2019s look at a little bit of history. It has nothing to do with football, except for the story which is really tremendous. His goal was to get an NFL contract and take care of his family. He defined well his major life goal. (click here about setting goals)\\nHis Start - Overcoming Adversity\\nHere was somebody, started out, he grew up extremely poor. In order to reach the NFL, he would need to overcome adversity. His family basically didn\\u2019t even have quite enough to feed themselves. He got his breakfast and lunch at school, he was very underweight, etc. but he trained\\xa0hard and he played football very hard. But he was very underweight. What happened was East Carolina was the only school looking at him. At the last minute, Wake Forest came in, liked him. Wake Forest came in, offered him a scholarship, and he was able to go. At Wake Forest he was able to gain the weight that he never had before. Why? Because of the training and the meal programs that they had.\\n\\nFinally he was able to eat like a football player in training. He was able to put on the pounds, gain the weight, etc. What drove him so hard to do all of this? That\\xa0dream of being able to get an NFL contract and of supporting his family, of overcoming adversity for his entire family. He had a \\u201cwhy\\u201d that was extremely strong and extremely driven. If you think back to one of the earlier episodes, that\\u2019s developing that overarching \\u201cwhy,\\u201d but you need more than that. How do you ensure goal success (this episode explains how to build your own drive to succeed)? He knew that if he did not succeed, he and his family would end up back in that situation. That image, that motivation is what kept on driving him to get into that contract where he\\u2019d be able to absorb and bring home the money to support his family.\\nReaching His Big Goal\\nWith the goals and with that drive, he exceeded and excelled. He was well-regarded across the nation, and was drafted number four by the Seattle Seahawks. That was in 2009. By 2013, he dropped out of football, he couldn\\u2019t succeed in the NFL. What happened? He got his great, large contract. He got the contract that took\\xa0care of his family. His goals were reached, so he really did change the financial position of his family. They were now in a much different situation and well-situated with a huge contract. He was also far from home. Seattle from Carolina is a huge difference.\\nPlateauing\\nRemember I\\u2019ve talked before about hitting a plateau? What has happened, and what really is a plateau? Did that mean when he hit the NFL he reached his limit and was beyond\\xa0his ability? No, not at all. What happened was he had realized his goals, he slowed down. He satisfied his goals that had driven him so far. The biggest enemy of success is success and losing motivation. The NFL, which changes the dynamics tremendously\\xa0has more demands and nobody can just step in and do well. You may be a rookie, you may be slotted to be a superstar because of potential,'