How trying too hard can create frustration for you and your horse.

Published: April 4, 2020, 10:03 p.m.

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\\u201cSo you make the wrong thing difficult and the right thing easy. You just fix it up, and let him find it.\\u201d -Ray Hunt

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Like many riders, I\\u2019m prone to trying extra hard to get something right. If at first I don\\u2019t succeed, I try, try again. But sometimes it\\u2019s much better to not TRY so hard. Instead, slow down and take a step back \\u2014 so you can see the situation from a different perspective. Trying hard usually means you\\u2019re already expecting to fail. You can put effort into things, you can put in steady, good work \\u2014 but trying too hard often closes your mind and gets you fixated on a particular approach. Instead of trying to make something happen, instead experiment with setting up a situation so that you and the horse can learn together.

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