Do not surround yourself with average people | Always make sure that you are around the successful

Published: Dec. 27, 2020, 7:32 a.m.

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It is said that you are what your friends are. One can predict your personality if they know your 5 friends or people with whom you are around most of the time. 

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If you have problems in your life, try finding out somebody in your group is also facing similar problems. 

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Be it personal, marriage, business, financial or anything. You will find your network or the people your are close to also have similar problems like you. 

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So what does that conclude? 

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So what does that mean?

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You are what your surrounding is

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So be around successful

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Be around the great

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Be around masters

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Be around the best

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don't choose to be around average

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because they won't push you

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they won't challenge you

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they won't inspire you

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to work hard

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to be strong

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and to not have complains

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and to not struggle

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Make new friends get out of their comfort zone. 

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You are used to your old friends because

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You don't want to make new

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and why you don't want to make new

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Coz you will have to meet new people

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Know new people 

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and get out of your comfort zone 

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Trust them and make new friends. 

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Get into a new neighborhood

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Get to a new city

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Into a new society or wherever 

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You can get the new you. 

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You can find the new you, the hidden you. 

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Who better than me can understand this. 

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I was lazy and I was never willing to get out

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Go out and meet new people. 

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Make new friends but when I understood

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that my growth and my success

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are dependant on this one habit of me. 

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This one thing is stopping me for being what I want to be? 

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I started moving out. I still struggle,

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I still fight with myself

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I still try to just know a few people who I have known for the last 10-15 years 

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But I get myself out, out of the comfort zone. 

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So how are you going to do that? 

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Talk to your neighbor

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Make a new friend in the lift today

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in the Taxi, in your office 

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at a coffee shop

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it could be anywhere and you will find a lot of people like you

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I heard somebody saying if your friends haven't changed for the last 5 years or 10 years, you haven't grown. If you don't have new and better friends means you are right where you were.

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