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It is said that you are what your friends are. One can predict your personality if they know your 5 friends or people with whom you are around most of the time.
\\nIf you have problems in your life, try finding out somebody in your group is also facing similar problems.
\\nBe it personal, marriage, business, financial or anything. You will find your network or the people your are close to also have similar problems like you.
\\nSo what does that conclude?
\\nSo what does that mean?
\\nYou are what your surrounding is
\\nSo be around successful
\\nBe around the great
\\nBe around masters
\\nBe around the best
\\ndon't choose to be around average
\\nbecause they won't push you
\\nthey won't challenge you
\\nthey won't inspire you
\\nto work hard
\\nto be strong
\\nand to not have complains
\\nand to not struggle
\\nMake new friends get out of their comfort zone.
\\nYou are used to your old friends because
\\nYou don't want to make new
\\nand why you don't want to make new
\\nCoz you will have to meet new people
\\nKnow new people
\\nand get out of your comfort zone
\\nTrust them and make new friends.
\\nGet into a new neighborhood
\\nGet to a new city
\\nInto a new society or wherever
\\nYou can get the new you.
\\nYou can find the new you, the hidden you.
\\nWho better than me can understand this.
\\nI was lazy and I was never willing to get out
\\nGo out and meet new people.
\\nMake new friends but when I understood
\\nthat my growth and my success
\\nare dependant on this one habit of me.
\\nThis one thing is stopping me for being what I want to be?
\\nI started moving out. I still struggle,
\\nI still fight with myself
\\nI still try to just know a few people who I have known for the last 10-15 years
\\nBut I get myself out, out of the comfort zone.
\\nSo how are you going to do that?
\\nTalk to your neighbor
\\nMake a new friend in the lift today
\\nin the Taxi, in your office
\\nat a coffee shop
\\nit could be anywhere and you will find a lot of people like you
\\nI heard somebody saying if your friends haven't changed for the last 5 years or 10 years, you haven't grown. If you don't have new and better friends means you are right where you were.
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