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Feel like you contribute more to the household duties than your partner? Do you find yourself saying, \\u201cI\\u2019ll just do it myself\\u201d more than not? If you\\u2019re feeling burnt out or overwhelmed by all of the invisible mental work required to run a household, this episode has your solution. Eve Rodsky, author of the best-selling book Fair Play, is sharing her simple strategy for dividing household tasks fairly using boundaries, systems and communication. Whether you\\u2019re single and can use this information to start strong in your next relationship, are married or have kids and truly need more peace and to truly be able to enjoy your free time, we hope this conversation is helpful, validating and enlightening.\\xa0
\\u201cA boundary is 3 things: a permission to be unavailable from your roles, vanquishing guilt and shame in that unavailability so it doesn\\u2019t ruin your unavailable time and being able to ask for what you need.\\u201d - Eve Rodsky
What we talk about:
Scheduling European adventures (Kristina lets us know THE time to be in the Greek islands)
Kristina has a spooky story that will give you chills
Our hot take on The Kardashian\\u2019s new Hulu show
The \\u201cinvisible mental load\\u201d we carry
WHY women have been pigeon-holed into roles within the home
Overcoming the urge of saying \\u201cI\\u2019ll just do it myself\\u201d
Developing the \\u201cwhy\\u201d behind your systems at home
Examples of how you can have these conversations with your partner
Implementing CPE (conception, planning, execution) and minimum standards of care
Eve plays the Fair Play Card Game with Raeann and Kristina and we get to learn more about their family systems growing up
Feeling deserving of your free time
\\u201cEven though time is our most valuable currency, we\\u2019re taught to give it away for free.\\u201d - Eve Rodsky
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New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.
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Resources:
Check out Kristina\\u2019s Elta MD Sunscreen
Find Rae\\u2019s Set Active Bodysuit
Read Fair Play by Eve Rodsky
The Fair Play Card Game
Read Eve\\u2019s new book Find Your Unicorn Space
Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective\\xa0
Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas
Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/
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