4 Lies Energy Managers, People Pleasers, and Approval Addicts Tell Themselves

Published: May 11, 2022, 9 a.m.

An energy manager is someone whose people-pleasing habit has gone next-level and become an addiction. You know you\u2019re an energy manager if you are constantly and hyper-vigilantly managing the moods, thoughts, and feelings of your people \u2014 your partner, friends, coworkers, furnace repair guy, whoever. It\u2019s exhausting and thankless and the \u201cwork\u201d of energy managing never ends. And the crazy thing is that IT DOESN\u2019T WORK. Like addicts clinging to their substance of choice, energy managers and people pleasers cling to a handful of very false notions that perpetuate this extremely toxic addiction. Today, I cover 4 of them.

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