We've all heard this cliché to excuse bad behavior of others. It is not only none of your business why someone hurt you, it isn't your emotional luggage to carry or ever think about again. The codependency of thinking you must understand, coddle or give head space rent free about another bad choice is dysfunction in a cocktail dress. She may be pretty, but dangerous. It is not your job to wonder, care or unpack another's trauma. Put the bags down, and fly free today!
Hurt People, Hurt People is cancelled!