Boodaism

Boodaism

156 episodes

Dave Booda offers an unconventional and often controversial perspective on life, relationships and happiness. Each week he reads the essay that is also posted on his blog, boodaism.com.

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We Fucking Need Each Other

Published: May 29, 2019, 7:19 p.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 29 seconds

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I miss blogs.

Published: May 23, 2019, 11:56 p.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 58 seconds

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You Cant Be Nice to a Narcissist

Published: May 6, 2019, 6:58 p.m.
Duration: 13 minutes 40 seconds

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Back in the Saddle: 2018 Annual Review

Published: Jan. 2, 2019, 10 p.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 1 second

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Tell the Truth

Published: Sept. 21, 2018, 11:58 p.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 53 seconds

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Before You Read The Way of the Superior Man Read This

Published: Aug. 1, 2018, 7:42 a.m.
Duration: 18 minutes 54 seconds

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The Surprising Foundation of Every Great Relationship

Published: July 7, 2018, 9:01 p.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 36 seconds

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The Day Life Coaches Replaced Best Friends

Published: June 20, 2018, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 22 seconds

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To My Overachieving Friends, Whom I Love Dearly [Poem]

Published: June 13, 2018, 9:24 p.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 26 seconds

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Art Isnt Dead, We Are

Published: June 6, 2018, 8:06 a.m.
Duration: 11 minutes 31 seconds

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What It Means To Leave Someone Better Than You Found Them

Published: June 1, 2018, 7:12 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 40 seconds

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Everyone Believes in God

Published: May 17, 2018, 6:55 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 23 seconds

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You Dont Have Time for Art [Poem]

Published: May 2, 2018, 9:10 p.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 13 seconds

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Loving All The Parts

Published: April 26, 2018, 8:12 p.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 18 seconds

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Why Nerds Are Happier

Published: April 21, 2018, 6:17 p.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 37 seconds

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The Difference Between Having Needs & Being Needy

Published: April 13, 2018, 8:43 p.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 20 seconds

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2018 Ultra-Light Travel Guide: My Gear & Mindset

Published: April 4, 2018, 9 a.m.
Duration: 10 minutes 51 seconds

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The Reason Its So Hard To Find Happy Relationships on Dating Apps

Published: March 28, 2018, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 46 seconds

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The Problem with Liberalism (From a Liberal Perspective)

Published: March 22, 2018, 4:31 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 49 seconds

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17 Creative Ways To Be Lonely

Published: March 15, 2018, 6:48 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 34 seconds

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How Modern Marriage Is Making Us Lonely

Published: March 8, 2018, 12:37 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 47 seconds

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Youre Not Trying To Debate, Youre Just Being a Dick

Published: Feb. 28, 2018, 10 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 4 seconds

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Stop Looking for The One and Do This Instead

Published: Feb. 22, 2018, 12:31 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 41 seconds

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State Change vs Transformation

Published: Feb. 7, 2018, 10 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 5 seconds

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The President America Needs, Not the One It Wants

Published: Jan. 31, 2018, 10 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 8 seconds

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Why Sex Workers Should Replace Dating Coaches

Published: Jan. 24, 2018, 10 a.m.
Duration: 13 minutes 3 seconds

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I Want You To Like Me [Poem]

Published: Jan. 17, 2018, 10 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 30 seconds

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5 Simple Ways to Have More Intimacy with your Friends

Published: Jan. 10, 2018, 10 a.m.
Duration: 10 minutes 15 seconds

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On Public Shaming and the Death of Civilized Discourse

Published: Jan. 4, 2018, 1:36 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 42 seconds

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Consequences Create Motivation: 2017 Annual Review

Published: Dec. 27, 2017, 11:56 p.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 50 seconds

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The 10 Kinds of People Who Leave Annoying Comments on Facebook

Published: Dec. 20, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 29 seconds

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Why Narcissists Love Spiritual Communities

Published: Dec. 14, 2017, 1:08 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 50 seconds

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7 Ways I Use Minimalism on My iPhone

Published: Dec. 6, 2017, 8:59 p.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 20 seconds

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5 Mistakes People Make When Writing On the Internet

Published: Nov. 29, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 10 minutes 43 seconds

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Dear Men in Glass Houses

Published: Nov. 22, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 49 seconds

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I Dont Care You Got Engaged

Published: Nov. 15, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 18 seconds

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The Ten Commandments of Boodaism

Published: Nov. 8, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 20 seconds

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The Key to a Peaceful Divorce

Published: Nov. 1, 2017, 7:36 p.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 17 seconds

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People Are Stupid What George Carlin Taught Me About Happiness

Published: Oct. 25, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 13 minutes 2 seconds

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Just Feel the Pain

Published: Oct. 18, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 20 seconds

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The Confronting Reason You Havent Been Able to Do That Thing Youve Been Wanting to Do for a While

Published: Oct. 11, 2017, 10:09 p.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 47 seconds

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Its Okay to End a Good Relationship

Published: Oct. 4, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes

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Im Cycling from Vancouver to San Diego

Published: Aug. 3, 2017, 10:17 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 58 seconds

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You Can Always Walk Away

Published: July 26, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 18 seconds

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Relationships Are Really Really Really Really Really Really Fucking Important

Published: July 20, 2017, 1:32 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 59 seconds

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Dating Beyond Gender

Published: July 12, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 42 seconds

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I Wish We Would Stop Saying You Can Have It All

Published: July 5, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 7 seconds

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I Would Fall In Love With My Ex-Wife Again In A Heartbeat

Published: June 28, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 11 seconds

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What I Believe Makes America Great

Published: June 21, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 53 seconds

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The Self-Righteousness of Minimalism and Vagabonding

Published: June 14, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 38 seconds

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The Magic of Slowing Down

Published: June 7, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 24 seconds

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The Subtle Shift That Causes Stress in Long-Term Relationships

Published: May 31, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 33 seconds

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A Minimalist Love Song [Song]

Published: May 24, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 34 seconds

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Youre Busy Because Youre Afraid to Change Your Life

Published: May 17, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 6 seconds

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A Religion of One [Poem]

Published: May 10, 2017, 9:09 p.m.
Duration: 1 minute 13 seconds

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Why Men Shouldnt Be Threatened by Feminism

Published: May 3, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 32 seconds

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Why Nuanced Conversation About Consent Is So Hard

Published: April 26, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 11 seconds

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5 Awesome Fucking Reasons Straight Men Should Take It Up The Ass

Published: April 19, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 47 seconds

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Why I Love and Hate Being Friends with Entrepreneurs

Published: April 12, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 10 seconds

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An Ode to Space [Poem]

Published: April 5, 2017, 11:51 p.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 20 seconds

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How To Transform Jealousy Into Excitement

Published: March 30, 2017, 12:03 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 22 seconds

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Millennials Arent The Problem, We Are

Published: March 22, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 16 seconds

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The Most Un-Romantic Marriage Advice Ever

Published: March 15, 2017, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 19 seconds

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The World Is Inside You [Poem]

Published: March 8, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 1 minute 46 seconds

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Youre Not a Bad Person, You Just Have Great Taste

Published: March 1, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 1 second

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Im Triggered That Youre Triggered

Published: Feb. 22, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 41 seconds

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4 Relationship Lessons from 4 Years of Marriage

Published: Feb. 15, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 10 minutes 32 seconds

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Why Understanding Privilege is Essential to True Consent

Published: Feb. 8, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 35 seconds

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Why Tantra and Polyamory Dont Mix

Published: Feb. 1, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 38 seconds

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The Fetish of Consistency

Published: Jan. 25, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 23 seconds

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Minimalist Packing Guide: How To Travel Indefinitely With A Normal Backpack

Published: Jan. 18, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 34 seconds

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The Purpose of My Travels

Published: Jan. 11, 2017, 11:18 p.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 51 seconds

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Im Not Changing a Damn Thing in 2017

Published: Jan. 4, 2017, 10 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 38 seconds

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2016 Annual Review

Published: Dec. 28, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 58 seconds

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A Minimalist Christmas Poem

Published: Dec. 21, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 43 seconds

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The Unexpected Reason I Can Afford an Adventurous Life

Published: Dec. 14, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 56 seconds

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5 Reasons a Feminist Is Sexy

Published: Dec. 7, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 54 seconds

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Its Not Okay To Be Silent Anymore

Published: Nov. 30, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 38 seconds

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Im Afraid of Being Gay

Published: Nov. 23, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 31 seconds

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Art is Disagreement

Published: Nov. 16, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 52 seconds

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On Being A Man

Published: Nov. 9, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 45 seconds

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The Hardest Thing About Professional Blogging

Published: Nov. 2, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 16 seconds

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I Promise, Its Not Lame To Ask A Woman for Consent

Published: Oct. 26, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 2 seconds

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Traveling Sucks Too

Published: Oct. 19, 2016, 10:35 p.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 45 seconds

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Communication Is My Fetish

Published: Oct. 12, 2016, 6:12 p.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 19 seconds

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What Music Is Really About

Published: Oct. 5, 2016, 11:47 p.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 55 seconds

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This Is For Me

Published: Sept. 28, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 31 seconds

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In Defense of Pick Up Artists

Published: Sept. 21, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 27 seconds

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The One Question No One Asks On A Date (But Should)

Published: Sept. 14, 2016, 8 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 50 seconds

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Loneliness Is My Spiritual Practice

Published: Sept. 7, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 45 seconds

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Theres No Such Thing as a Failed Relationship

Published: Aug. 24, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 50 seconds

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Youre Perfect Just the Way You Arent

Published: Aug. 17, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 48 seconds

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How I Define a Successful Relationship

Published: Aug. 10, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 28 seconds

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Dont Follow Your Heart

Published: Aug. 3, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 47 seconds

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Were Unhappy Because We Try to Win a Shitty Game

Published: July 27, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 30 seconds

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Im Afraid of My Truth

Published: July 20, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 32 seconds

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Love + Drugs

Published: July 13, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 54 seconds

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On Personal Branding and the Addiction to Self-Importance

Published: July 6, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 1 second

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My Wife Is Not My Therapist

Published: June 29, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 24 seconds

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Yes I Would Be A Good Dad, and No I Dont Want Kids

Published: June 22, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 17 seconds

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Insecurity as a Gateway to Connection

Published: June 15, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 28 seconds

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The Death and Re-Birth of My Marriage

Published: June 8, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 53 seconds

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Ego Makes Intimacy Possible

Published: June 1, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 23 seconds

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Breaking the Gender Code

Published: May 25, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 33 seconds

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This is Me, This Is Enough

Published: May 18, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 33 seconds

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How the Manifesting Generation is Collectively Killing Our Self-Esteem

Published: May 4, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 49 seconds

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Heres a New Way To Look at Life Purpose

Published: April 27, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 11 seconds

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5 Things I Wish They Told Me When I Started Life Coaching

Published: April 20, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 23 seconds

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Bernie Is My Girl

Published: April 13, 2016, 6:38 p.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 29 seconds

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Lonely Is the New Normal

Published: April 5, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 49 seconds

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I Hope You Give Up On Love

Published: March 30, 2016, 7:01 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 53 seconds

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How Your Addictions Can Be Good for Productivity

Published: March 23, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 30 seconds

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Why Most Relationship Experts Are Completely Wrong About Polyamory

Published: March 16, 2016, 9 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 43 seconds

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Your Life Is Always on the Right Track

Published: March 9, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 28 seconds

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Im Afraid My Wife Will Die

Published: March 2, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 58 seconds

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The Real Reason People Join the Military and Go To War

Published: Jan. 27, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 3 seconds

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The Simple Key To Relaxation

Published: Jan. 20, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 21 seconds

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The Secret to Happy Relationships I Learned From Jesus

Published: Jan. 13, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 11 minutes 15 seconds

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Why Artists Fail, Go Broke and Die Unfulfilled

Published: Jan. 6, 2016, 10 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 17 seconds

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30 Ridiculously Simple Ways To Make Your Life Better

Published: Dec. 28, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 43 seconds

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2015 Annual Review

Published: Dec. 21, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 26 seconds

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How To Get a $65,000 Loan Back From Your Friend

Published: Dec. 14, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 22 seconds

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5 Simple Questions To Find Creative Work You Love

Published: Dec. 7, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 11 minutes 42 seconds

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Jesus Loves Orgasms

Published: Nov. 30, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 59 seconds

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You Dont Need To Save The World To Feel Like You Made A Difference

Published: Nov. 23, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 10 seconds

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Im Struggling to Not Sell Out

Published: Nov. 16, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 17 seconds

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Having an Intention vs Needing a Strategy

Published: Nov. 9, 2015, 7:35 p.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 5 seconds

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What I Mean When I Say Im in an Open Relationship

Published: Nov. 2, 2015, 10 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 39 seconds

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The Inconvenient Truth About Legacy

Published: Oct. 26, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 6 seconds

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How To Find Your Passion Instantly

Published: Oct. 19, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 53 seconds

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Running Out of Money as an Adventure

Published: Oct. 12, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 10 seconds

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Virtual Exchange Program: Geography Class for the 21st Century

Published: Oct. 5, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 55 seconds

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What To Do When I Die

Published: Sept. 21, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 58 seconds

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How Indulging Perfectionism Makes Me A Better Writer

Published: Sept. 14, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 3 minutes 6 seconds

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All Perspectives Are True

Published: Sept. 7, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 29 seconds

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Life Is A Carnival of Experience

Published: Aug. 31, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 8 seconds

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Life is Like an Art Class

Published: Aug. 24, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 40 seconds

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Maybe Youre Not So Fucking Special

Published: Aug. 17, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 42 seconds

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Are You Really In Control of Your Life?

Published: Aug. 10, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 26 seconds

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A Goal Is Something You Dont Want To Do

Published: Aug. 3, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 11 seconds

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The Most Frustrating and Beautiful Day of My Life

Published: July 27, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 10 seconds

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On Breaking Up

Published: July 20, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 35 seconds

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You Dont Want It Bad Enough, and Thats Okay

Published: July 13, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 40 seconds

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4 Habits of Highly Effective People Who Are Never Satisfied

Published: July 6, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 57 seconds

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How To Touch Someones Heart

Published: June 29, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 10 seconds

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The Benefits of Comfort and Security for a Creative Life

Published: June 22, 2015, 8:04 p.m.
Duration: 6 minutes 45 seconds

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An Encyclopedia Contains No Wisdom

Published: June 16, 2015, 12:10 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 53 seconds

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All Affirmations Are False

Published: June 8, 2015, 9:03 p.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 13 seconds

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The Audacity of Giving Yourself Permission

Published: May 28, 2015, 10:58 p.m.
Duration: 7 minutes 5 seconds

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Doing Your Best, Even When It Sucks

Published: May 18, 2015, 8:09 p.m.
Duration: 1 minute 35 seconds

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On Art and Making Money

Published: May 10, 2015, 8:15 p.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 10 seconds

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Love Is Either A Daring Adventure or Nothing At All

Published: May 7, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 36 seconds

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The Joy of Missing My Wife

Published: May 4, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 48 seconds

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On Earthquakes and Feeling Helpless

Published: April 27, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 42 seconds

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The Real Difference Between Traveling and Vacationing

Published: April 20, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 8 minutes 36 seconds

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The Commodification of People

Published: April 13, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 4 minutes 10 seconds

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Personality as a Substitute for Courage

Published: March 30, 2015, 9 a.m.
Duration: 2 minutes 33 seconds

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The Peculiar Reason Men (and Women) Are Afraid Of Deep Relationships

Published: Jan. 26, 2014, 1:44 a.m.
Duration: 12 minutes 1 second

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