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b'T\\u0101pat k\\u0101 m\\u0101ja balst\\u0101s uz pamatiem, pieaugu\\u0161a cilv\\u0113ka dz\\u012bve balst\\u0101s agr\\u0101 b\\u0113rn\\u012bb\\u0101 piedz\\u012bvotaj\\u0101, vai t\\u0101 b\\u016btu g\\u0101d\\u012bga beznosac\\u012bjuma m\\u012blest\\u012bba, kas \\u0161os pamatus stiprin\\u0101jusi, vai vardarb\\u012bba un atst\\u0101\\u0161ana nov\\u0101rt\\u0101, kas rada dzi\\u013cas plaisas \\u0161ajos jau t\\u0101 nestabilajos pamatos. Vai b\\u0113rn\\u012bbas agr\\u012bn\\u0101 pieredze \\u0123imen\\u0113 patie\\u0161\\u0101m atst\\u0101j ietekmi uz cilv\\u0113ka psihi pieaugu\\u0161\\u0101 vecum\\u0101? Kur m\\u0113s redzam \\u0161\\u012bs sekas ikdienas dz\\u012bv\\u0113 un vai da\\u017e\\u0101d\\u0101s audzin\\u0101\\u0161anas teorijas guvu\\u0161as apstiprin\\u0101jumu ilgtermi\\u0146\\u0101, skaidro att\\u012bst\\u012bbas psiholo\\u0123e, Latvijas Universit\\u0101tes asoci\\u0113t\\u0101 profesore Anika Miltuze.\\n\\nAnika Miltuze skaidro, ka ir dro\\u0161a un nedro\\u0161a piesaiste.\\n\\n\\n"Dro\\u0161a piesaiste ir, ka b\\u0113rni\\u0146am ir izveidojusies izj\\u016bta, ka vi\\u0146\\u0161 ir m\\u012blest\\u012bbas v\\u0113rts, ka vi\\u0146\\u0161 ir apr\\u016bp\\u0113ts, ka vi\\u0146am atsauksies, ka vi\\u0146\\u0161 var dro\\u0161i iet p\\u0113t\\u012bt pasauli, jo tad, kad man vajadz\\u0113s, ja es no kaut k\\u0101 nob\\u012b\\u0161os, mamma vai t\\u0113tis b\\u016bs," skaidro Anika Miltuze.\\n\\n\\n"Nedro\\u0161\\u0101s ir vair\\u0101kas, jo diem\\u017e\\u0113l vec\\u0101ki, kuri nav gatavi vai pietr\\u016bkst resursu rea\\u0123\\u0113t uz vis\\u0101m b\\u0113rna vajadz\\u012bb\\u0101m un apmierin\\u0101t t\\u0101s, to var dar\\u012bt da\\u017e\\u0101dos veidos. Nedro\\u0161\\u0101s piesaisties var b\\u016bt diferenc\\u0113tas," turpina p\\u0113tniece.\\n\\nB\\u0113rns iem\\u0101c\\u0101s izmantot da\\u017e\\u0101das manipulat\\u012bvas strat\\u0113\\u0123ijas, lai pan\\u0101ktu, ka patie\\u0161\\u0101m piev\\u0113r\\u0161 uzman\\u012bbu.\\n\\n"Kad cilv\\u0113ks ar \\u0161\\u0101du trauksmainu piesaisti dab\\u016b apliecin\\u0101jumu, ka tas otrs ir ar mani, tas nepiepilda vi\\u0146a iek\\u0161\\u0113jo izj\\u016btu. Trauksme saglab\\u0101j\\u0101s. Lab\\u0101 zi\\u0146a, ka piesaiste ir sp\\u0113j\\u012bga main\\u012bties," nor\\u0101da Anika Miltuze.\\n\\n"P\\u0113t\\u012bjumi r\\u0101da, ka piesaistes veids, k\\u0101ds bijis b\\u0113rn\\u012bb\\u0101, nav t\\u0101ds pats romantisk\\u0101s attiec\\u012bb\\u0101s pieaugu\\u0161o vecum\\u0101. Korel\\u0101cijas ir, bet v\\u0101jas. Tas noz\\u012bm\\u0113, ka piesaiste var main\\u012bties un liel\\u0101k\\u0101 da\\u013c\\u0101 gad\\u012bjumu tas ar\\u012b notiek, tom\\u0113r tas ir komplekss veidojums un daudz\\u0161\\u0137aut\\u0146ains komplekss, l\\u012bdz ar to pamatuzved\\u012bbas meh\\u0101nismi var b\\u016bt notur\\u012bgi, bet vienalga katras attiec\\u012bbas, kur\\u0101s nok\\u013c\\u016bstu, var veidoties at\\u0161\\u0137ir\\u012bgas, jo pret\\u012b ir cits cilv\\u0113ks," analiz\\u0113 Anika Miltuze.\\n\\n\\n"Ja b\\u0113rn\\u012bb\\u0101 ir\\xa0 pieredze, ka vec\\u0101ki uz man\\u0101m vajadz\\u012bb\\u0101m \\u012bsti neatsaucas un es esmu diezgan agri sapratis, ka dz\\u012bv\\u0113 j\\u0101tiek gal\\u0101 ar visu pa\\u0161am un gadiem to esmu dar\\u012bjis, tad, non\\u0101kot situ\\u0101cij\\u0101, kur blakus ir otrs cilv\\u0113ks, es joproj\\u0101m lab\\u0101k j\\u016btos, kad pie\\u0146emu l\\u0113mumu pats. Man ir gr\\u016bti, iesp\\u0113jams, dal\\u012bties ar otru, kas var b\\u016bt iemesls da\\u017e\\u0101diem konfliktiem attiec\\u012bb\\u0101s, jo varb\\u016bt otram ir cits priek\\u0161stats, k\\u0101d\\u0101m j\\u0101b\\u016bt attiec\\u012bb\\u0101m."'