When Home isn't home anymore...
**Recorded live from Rome, Italy**
\n"One of the most beautiful and evocative of all words is \u2018home\u2019. Folded within it are suggestions of safety, understanding, sympathy, warmth and belonging.
\nBut, at points, to our dawning horror, we may be forced to take on board a hugely disorienting conclusion: despite our intense hopes, home may not \u2013 in fact \u2013 be home. We may have a building and a circle of people to which we are committed and where nominally we belong, but our particular \u2018home\u2019 may not for that matter live up to our yearning for respite and nurture, security and growth.
\nConfusingly, even very imperfect homes can feel better than the wilderness and desolation beyond, which is why we often stay around far longer than we should. But it is, in the long term, impossible to still the insistent voice inside us.
\nMaybe we\u2019re an adolescent and we realise that the family we were born into cannot respect who we\u2019ve grown up to be. Or we\u2019re in a group of friends that have ceased to see the world as we do. Or perhaps we are in a relationship and have slowly despaired that our partner will ever appreciate certain ideas that matter profoundly to us.
\nIt shouldn\u2019t surprise us that so many of us don\u2019t fit our homes; we never consciously chose them. We inherited them or stumbled into them, we fell into them by accident when we were too young to understand ourselves and others
\nThere are moments when we may need to keep moving until the place we live in is \u2013 at last \u2013 able actively to honour what home should always have been."
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