Episode 99 – Terror of Worthiness
The most important message to give you out of this episode on worthiness is that there is no terror of unworthiness. You are a capable, talented, divine, wonderful, worthwhile person. That's who you are; you are given gifts and talents as you came here. And that's so spectacular. - Kellan Fluckiger
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What you will learn today
Terror of worthiness - the feeling that we so often have that we're just not good enough for something, that we're somehow less than. Whatever it is, trust is something about you that is inadequate. You didn't make it, and you don't count. You're not; they're not.
That played a tremendous role for me. I internalized that. And I don't think there was an intent to create that feeling on the part of my family upbringing. I came away with the idea that I was not good enough and never will be anything. That whatever I do will NOT be good enough.
What did I do to resolve this?
PTAC has helped me in my journey. This is my….
P-ersonal
T-ruth
A-nd
C-ommitment
A statement that I have created that guides my life and have helped me tremendously to live the ultimate life. I live it every day, a life full of purpose, prosperity, and joy.
How to overcome the fear within you?
When I realized that the construct of fear, or inadequacy, or negativity was all but an agitation, all I did was, think or understand the truth that I'm valuable. Then I'm already okay.
Number one, when the pressure all evaporated, the thinking that you don’t have value is gone, you felt no stress anymore, period... And the second thing, the energy with which you accomplished, the things that you had to do was positive light and fun, think of all your accomplishments, whether it’s big or small. Celebrate it, even how little what you did, all of it counts.
Everything about life changes when you realize that you are already valuable, capable, and so forth. And so I talked about receiving love and divine love in the last podcast. The most important message to give you out of this episode on worthiness is that there is no terror of unworthiness. You are a capable, talented, divine, wonderful, worthwhile person. That's who you are; you are given gifts and talents as you came here. And that's so spectacular.
My closing remarks
So the idea that you have to carry this albatross of unworthiness, for some unspecified distance for some indefinite time is not true. You are right, you are worthy. And the only ticket is, are you trying and when you failed you clean up the mess and get back in the game. Change that about attitude, and you'll make massive steps toward your ultimate life.
Key Takeaways:
You’ve got to be asking these questions to yourself. What does it take to make you worthy? What makes you worthy or not worthy? And the answer is straightforward. Are you trying as hard as you are able, in any given moment, given the circumstances are you working hard? And when you fall? Do you get up and go at it again? - Kellan Fluckiger
If you're doing the best, you can not make excuses, but you're trying to live your life to create your gifts and talents to serve to be an excellent person to do an excellent job at work home and your relationship if you're trying to do that. And when you fail, you clean up your mess. You clean up the mess that you left, and you get back up in the game. - Kellan Fluckiger
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