134: Beyond Sex Education with Dr. Nadine Thornhill
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\\n\\n"Do you know what happens to your body when you get older?"\\n\\n"Um...you get hairy in some places?"\\n\\n"Yeah...other things happen too.\\xa0 We\'ll get you some books."\\n\\n \\n\\nThat was what I learned about sex education when I was seven - I\\xa0was\\xa0always grateful that I learned it from my parents (who were pretty terrified to talk about it,\\xa0 I think) rather than from the other kids at school.\\xa0 But then the topic wasn\'t mentioned again until I was about 18, with a vague reference to "being careful" with my first boyfriend, whom I wasn\'t even sleeping with yet.\\n\\n \\n\\nFriends: we have to do more than this if we want our children to be able to show up in relationships as fulfilled human beings who understand what pleasure is, how to ask for it, and how to give it.\\n\\n \\n\\nWe need our children to know that sex does not have to equal intercourse, and that there are a whole host of ways to enjoy our (and each other\'s) bodies without doing this if we don\'t want to do it (when they\'re ready for it!).\\n\\n \\n\\nAnd we need to help our children understand boundaries so they can protect themselves when they need to - without getting so caught up in the shame that pervades our thinking about sex.\\xa0 (Since the sex = shame narrative is deeply pervasive in our culture I don\'t think we can overcome it completely, but we can make a start...).\\n\\n \\n\\nIn this episode we build on\\xa0our conversation with Charlotte Rose about sex for us parents\\xa0to go (far) Beyond Sex Ed with sex educator\\xa0Dr. Nadine Thornhill, whose direct, fun, engaging style will help you to see that you, too, can have conversations about sex and pleasure with your own children.\\xa0 You can find more information on Dr. Thornhill\'s work on her YouTube channel\\xa0where she addresses topics from what happens if the kid walk in on parents having sex to whether first time sex always hurts, as well as\\xa0on Instagram.\\n\\n
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