Ask Margaret: My Kid Loves to Push the Limits
b'Is the phrase "Well, you didn\'t say NOT to" a common refrain in your house? Some kids love to find ways around the rules and regulations parents or teachers set down.\\nA listener wrote in to say:\\n"How do you get your middle schooler to focus his incredible power of finding loopholes in all things from pointless ideas to more proactive agendas? \\nHe\\u2019s smart, witty, loves attention, and can argue with a brick wall. How do I help him channel that to good? Or how do I survive until he is mature enough to do it naturally? "\\nMargaret explains that boundary-seeking behavior is natural in kids and that parenting is more about "benevolent dictatorship" than constant policing.\\nFor trusted protection, choose Pampers, the #1 Pediatrician Recommended Brand. Download the Pampers Club App today to start earning rewards with every diaper & wipes purchase.\\xa0\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'