Ask Amy- My Teen Has Zero Interest In Getting A Driver's License
b'Teens today are driving less, and later, and are far less motivated to drive than we were. The number of 16-year-old\\xa0licensed drivers\\xa0in the United States decreased from 46.2 percent in 1983 to 25.6 percent in 2018.\\nBut shouldn\'t our teens learn how to drive? Isn\'t that a skill they\'re going to want to have at some point? And how do we get them to buy into that, instead of it becoming something else for teens and parents to fight about?\\nThis is how a listener put it on our Facebook page:\\nMy almost 17-year-old does not want to drive. We put him through drivers ed, and it was like pulling teeth to get him to practice. He has ADHD and is terrified of wrecking.\\xa0\\nMy question is, do we push him to at least get his license or let it go? I\\u2019ll give you one guess which parent wants to push\\u2026.\\nADHD is an additional risk factor for young drivers, particularly in the first months of their driving. But ADHD in itself doesn\'t cause bad driving\\u2013 it\'s the risky behaviors to which teens with ADHD are more prone that cause more accidents. This can become a teachable moment to talk with a teen about those behaviors and why they\'re more dangerous once he\'s behind the wheel.\\nBut giving our kids a sense of self-efficacy isn\'t just good for them\\u2013 as Jess Lahey argues in her new book THE ADDICTION INOCULATION, it can be protective, putting them at lower risk for addiction and other risky behaviors.\\nIn the long run, a driver\'s license might help a teen with anxiety. Consistent encouragement, rather than forcing the issue, will hopefully lead to a driving teen\\u2013 and more independence for everyone in the house\\u2013 a little sooner.\\nHere are links to some of the writing on the topic that Amy mentions in this episode:\\nHealthline: Teens with ADHD 62% More at Risk of an Accident in First Month of Driving\\nKatharina Buchholz for Statista: Americans Get Driver\'s Licenses Later in Life\\nAmerican Academy of Pediatrics: Traffic Crashes, Violations, and Suspensions Among Young Drivers With ADHD\\nJess Lahey for The New York Times: How to Lower Your Child\\u2019s Risk for Addiction\\n\\nSpecial thanks to our "Question of the Week" sponsor:\\nJane.com\\xa0is a boutique marketplace featuring the latest in women\\u2019s fashion, accessories, home decor, children\\u2019s clothing, and more. You will not believe the prices!\\xa0Visit\\xa0jane.com/laughing.\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'