Ask Amy: Can I Politely Decline a Playdate?
b'Is there anything worse? Your kid is begging for a playdate at a friend\'s house, while that friend is standing right there listening. Plus that kid\'s mother. And the thing is, you think this other kid is not such a good friend for your child to have. What do you do? \\nA listener in our Facebook group asks:\\n"My kid is 7 years old. Has anyone ever experienced your child making a friend but you don\\u2019t feel comfortable with your child going over to their house solo for play dates? Any advice for how to navigate and what to say when your child is invited over? What if you got a chance to know the parent meeting at the park or a school event or sports but you didn\\u2019t get the vibe that you\\u2019d be comfortable with your child going over there\\u2014 but you see them all the time and talk to the mom often and the kids beg for play dates in front of both parents?" \\nAmy suggests preparing a script ahead of time for politely declining in the moment and then exploring later what it is that\'s making you hesitant about this playdate. Is it the parents? The kid him/herself? Do you have anxiety about your kid playing at anyone\'s house, or just this kid? Sit with the discomfort and try to determine its root cause. Then go with your gut, while remaining open to receiving more information about the friend (or the friendship) later on that just might change your mind.\\nSpecial thanks to our sponsor, Pampers: \\nFor trusted protection, choose Pampers, the #1 Pediatrician Recommended Brand. Download the Pampers Club App today to start earning rewards with every diaper & wipes purchase.\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'