The Not-So-Secret Secrets of Confidence w/ Nicole Kalil
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This week my guest is Nicole Kalil. Nicole is\\xa0slightly obsessed with confidence and what it takes to both build and keep it! She spent the bulk of her professional life with a Fortune 500 company. Nicole speaks to leaders across the country about the \\u201cnot-so-secret\\u201d secrets of confidence.
\\u201cConfidence on the road to competence\\u2026\\u201d -- Nicole Kalil
During our time together, Nicole breaks\\xa0down a myriad of tangible action items for us to take on the road to confidence. I will share below...
Nicole reminds us to...
- Face the challenges.\\xa0
- Take the risks.\\xa0
- Chase our dreams.\\xa0
- Make the decisions.\\xa0
All with more confidence!
\\u201cAll the things that matter to us are tied directly to our confidence.\\u201d \\u2014 Nicole Kalil
\\u201cKnow who you are, own who you are not, and choose to embrace all of it.\\u201d \\xa0Knowing who we are is step one to confidence building. This also includes owning who you are NOT!
Let\\u2019s get deeper into it...
5 Key Confidence Builders:
- Action builds confidence.
- Failure (rejection, mistakes, etc.). Remember, we cannot avoid this!! The problem is you cannot be successful OR confident without ever experiencing failure. \\u201cFailure is a neutral event\\u2026we are the ones bringing meaning to the events!\\u201d -- Nicole K.\\xa0
- Choosing confidence. It\\u2019s not always feeling confident, it\\u2019s an active choice.
- Giving yourself grace on the journey. Understanding that confidence building is always a journey! Fears and doubts don\\u2019t go away. So, we are always on this journey.\\xa0
- Building confidence internally. It\\u2019s an inside-out game. If you are confident on the inside, it turns outward.
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