In the episode discover:\n1. How the constant to-do list ticker looping in Amanda's brain makes her feel like a dormant volcano.\n2. The job description we've somehow accepted for motherhood\u2014and whether self-abandonment is a job requirement.\n3. The way gender expectations even creep into Glennon and Abby's marriage.\n4. How to know whether your partner is a co-builder or an assistant.\n5. How to make the invisible load of caretaking visible\u2014and potentially bearable.\xa0\xa0\n \nTo learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy\n \n Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices