The JOY of Being Single: Unveiling the TRUTH About Single Life, Marriage & Happiness w/ Author/Researcher, Bella DePaulo

Published: Dec. 6, 2023, 9:11 a.m.

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Hi Cutie! In this episode, you\'ll hear my conversation with Bella DePaulo, a social scientist and researcher with an expertise in the benefits of Single life and the author of the new book, Single At Heart. On the pod today, Bella discusses the societal pressures to find a partner, explaining that longterm single life actually leads to happiness for many people. She advocates for recognizing and celebrating personal milestones and achievements that aren\'t marriage or children-focused. Bella further shares advice for those struggling with societal expectations and how solitude could lead to creativity...Whether you\'re single or partnered, this episode is an important one to begin to understand and come to peace with the fact that we are forever in relationship with ourselves. The relationship you have with yourself is the one relationship that no matter what, you can always count on being there. This conversation will give you tools to start developing deep self-acceptance, self-love and enjoyment of your own company. Timestamps and links below, my love!\\xa0

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00:04 Introduction: Topic Intro/Show Intro

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00:53 Guest Intro- Bella DePaulo: The Single Life Expert

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01:19 The Misconceptions of Single Life

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02:06 The Interview Begins: Bella DePaulo\'s Story

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02:51 The Joy of Being Single: Bella\'s Personal Experience

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04:38 The Science Behind Happiness and Marriage

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06:57 The Misrepresentation of Marriage in Society

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07:30 The Concept of Being Single at Heart

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08:09 The Misunderstanding of Single Life

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10:17 The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Self-Love

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11:18 The Challenges of Being Single in a Coupled World

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14:40 The Importance of Being True to Yourself

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27:14 Happily Single People Feel Threatening to Coupled People?

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31:08 Questioning Happiness and Conformity

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31:23 Why Singles Need the Legal Benefits of Marriage

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34:21 Challenging Social Norms and Celebrating Individual Achievements

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38:15 Navigating Uncomfortable Questions and Embracing Authenticity

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42:23 The Bias and Sexism in Society\'s Perception of Singlehood

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45:06 The Power of Solitude and Self-Partnership

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54:51 Defining \'Single at Heart\' and Embracing Self-Love

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57:32 Closing Remarks and Acknowledgements

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