TPP 293: Catherine Newman on How Kids Can Learn Social Skills and Ways to be a Good Human

Published: June 14, 2022, 9 a.m.

b'Today\\u2019s episode is all about social skills, but from an updated lens that really speaks to the lived experiences of today\\u2019s kids. My guest is writer and journalist Catherine Newman, and we\\u2019re going to dive into her new book, What Can I Say? A Kids Guide to Super Useful Social Skills to Help You Get Along and Express Yourself.\\nWhat Can I Say is aimed at kids ages 10 and up, and it includes practical and accessible advice to help kids and teens learn social skills, including everything from introduce themselves, express empathy, be persuasive, and apologize to compromise, ask for help, be grateful, and comfort a friend.\\nIn this conversation, Catherine and talk about why learning social and interpersonal skills are more important than ever for our kids, despite the fact that their lives are evolving to include more time spent online. We also talk about the climate for social emotional learning and ways parents and educators can to reinforce the social skills our kids are learning.\\n\\xa0Catherine Newman is the author of the memoirs Catastrophic Happiness and Waiting for Birdy, the middle-grade novel One Mixed-Up Night, the kids\\u2019 craft book Stitch Camp, the how-to books for kids How to Be a Person and What Can I Say? and the novel We All Want Impossible Things (forthcoming, Harper, November 2022). She edits the non-profit kids\\u2019 cooking magazine ChopChop, writes the etiquette column for Real Simple magazine, and is a regular contributor to the New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Parents magazine, Cup of Jo, and many other publications. She lives in Amherst, Massachusetts, with her family.\\n\\xa0\\nThings you\\u2019ll learn from this episode\\n\\nWhy it\\u2019s still important to learn social skills and interpersonal skills even though our kids\\u2019 lives are evolving to include more time spent online\\n\\nWhy it\\u2019s important to spend time learning social skills just as we would learn any other type of skill like algebra or singing\\n\\nThe importance of learning interpersonal skills that focus on empathy, setting boundaries, being curious, and being supportive and inclusive of people with different identities\\n\\nHow OT can help neurodivergent kids grow up with advanced social emotional skills\\n\\nWhat parents and educators can do to support and reinforce the social skills they are learning\\n\\n\\xa0\\nResources mentioned for how kids can learn social skills\\n\\nCatherine Newman\\u2019s website\\n\\nCatherine on Instagram\\n\\n\\nWhat Can I Say? A Kids\\u2019 Guide to Super Useful Social Skills to Help You Get Along and Express Yourself by Catherine Newman\\n\\n\\nHow to Be a Person: 65 Hugely Useful, Super-Important Skills to Learn before You\\u2019re Grown Up by Catherine Newman\\n\\nSupport the showConnect with Tilt Parenting\\n Visit Tilt Parenting\\n Take the free 7-Day Challenge \\n Read a chapter of Differently Wired \\n Follow Tilt on Twitter & Instagram \\n \\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'