TPP 051: Asher and Debbie Talk About Handling Parent-Child Conflict
b'Today\\u2019s episode is a Kid\\u2019s POV Special episode featuring another conversation with 12-year-old Asher. Our topic? Conflict. More specifically, handling parent-child conflict between the two of us. We\\u2019re tackling this topic because I\\u2019ve been getting questions from listeners who want to know a) if we even have conflicts at all and b) if so, how we handle them.\\nThe easy answer to the first part of that question is DEFINITELY. We DEFINITELY have conflict. I\\u2019m very human in that way, as is Asher. Today, we\\u2019ll spend the episode answering the second part of that question. We\\u2019ll talk about the kinds of things that crop up and cause conflict between us, and then we\\u2019ll share with you what that actually looks like in our world\\u2014what I do, what Ash does, and most importantly, how we move through and past it.\\nPro tip: This is a good episode for co-listening! When Asher and I listen to podcasts, we dump a puzzle out on the dining room table and listen while building the puzzle. It makes for a nice combination!\\n\\xa0About Debbie & Asher\\nDebbie Reber is the founder and CEO of Tilt Parenting and the host of the TiLT Parenting Podcast. 12-year-old Asher is Debbie\\u2019s child and is regularly featured on the podcast. Find out more by visiting the About Page.\\n\\xa0Things you\\u2019ll learn from this episode\\n\\nThe benefits of talking through and getting clear on expectations (for all members of the family) prior to leaving for a vacation\\n\\nA strategy for using the collaborative problem solving approach to identify, address, and pre-solve concerns ahead of time\\n\\nHow to make departure day go more smoothly\\n\\nThe benefits of exploring and researching aspects of a vacation time well in advance of the trip (including accommodations, activities, etc.)\\n\\nA strategy for using written schedules coupled with frequent reviews during a vacation keeps everyone\\u2019s expectations in check\\n\\nThe benefits of bringing a child into the planning process (and letting them determine some of what will happen on vacation)\\n\\nWhy it\\u2019s useful to work with your child to discover what they need most on vacation and then incorporating it into your daily plan (ie: rest, chill time, etc.)\\n\\n\\xa0Resources mentioned for handling parent-child conflict\\n\\nDownload a PDF of our Family Goals Worksheet\\n\\nDownload a PDF of our Vacation Concerns Worksheet\\n\\nDownload a PDF of our Daily Vacation Planner Worksheet\\n\\nLook at our Departure Plan whiteboard\\n\\nSupport the showConnect with Tilt Parenting\\n Visit Tilt Parenting\\n Take the free 7-Day Challenge \\n Read a chapter of Differently Wired \\n Follow Tilt on Twitter & Instagram \\n \\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'