The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Published: Jan. 28, 2020, 2:53 a.m.

b"How important is it for you to be in control? \\n\\nDo you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values? \\n\\nAnd what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply?\\n\\nToday my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20\\u2019s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside. \\n\\nIn this interview:\\nDoes Alyson have a fart fetish?\\nBeing a control freak\\nTrying to outrun my emotional world\\nBeing afraid of women\\nNavigating an emotional minefield\\n\\nPlus:\\nWhy I went to therapy\\nDealing with loss\\nConsidering suicide\\nThe difference between relief and peace of mind\\n\\u201cThe peace I was deeply wanting was on the other side of that thing I was avoiding.\\u201d\\n\\nAnd:\\nKen Wilber\\u2019s The Marriage of Sense and Soul\\nBeing out of alignment with inner values\\n\\u201cThey\\u2019re going to think I\\u2019m weird.\\u201d\\nPlaying it safe professionally\\n\\u201cIs this it? What now? Why can\\u2019t I just be happy here?\\u201d\\nYou don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients \\u2014 including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. \\nhttps://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//"