In tonight's episode, we are going to revisit chapter 7 in my book, THE CALCINATION OF A VOLATILE LIFE. It talks about how we are brainwashed into thinking there is someone out there that is just for us. The perfect person that will complement our life and make us feel whole again. UGH!\nWhy can't you be whole while single? Why is it so important for us to spend our lives searching for "the one"? We are in such a rush to find someone, that we overlook the red flags that are thrown all over the playing field, and end up regretting our decision later. We seem to go about our search all wrong. We are looking for Mr. tall, dark, and handsome, who has to be a dynamo in the sack. Good Luck! Let's dig deeper into what we think a soulmate is, and why we seem to think we need one.\n\n--- \n\nSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paula-julson/support