#148 What Wives Need to Understand About Their Husbands' Sex Drive, and What Men Need to Understand About Themselves
"Just because you've been with yourself for your entire life, doesn't mean you understand yourself."
\nThis is true about your spouse too. Just because you've been married to them for ___ years, doesn't mean you understand them.
\nAnd these statements are especially true when it comes to sexuality... understanding your own sexuality, and your shared relationship with your spouse.
\nJust because you have sex with your spouse doesn't mean you're good at talking about it or doing it.
Sexuality is a part of being human, and a pivotal part of being married.
\nAnd as such, it needs to be understood and directed. Unfortunately, many men do not understand themselves and their sex drive, and many more women do not understand their man.\xa0
\nWhy does he think about sex so much? Why does he want to have sex every day? Why are men visually stimulated? What can we do about it?\xa0
\nWhat about the differences in sexual desires and preferences between spouses? What can you do to increase or decrease sexual desire, either in myself or my spouse? What can I do to make it great?!\xa0
\nThese things come up all the time in the personal coaching that I do, and the work that I do with couples and it is very often a huge source of frustration and conflict, instead of an amazing source of connection and love.\xa0
\nIn this episode, I risk being open, blunt, and bold in order to share a perspective that I hope will be very helpful for individuals and couples.\xa0
\nThis is an episode that needs to be shared far and wide so that couples can have a clear understanding and open dialogue to understand each other and improve their sexual relationship.\xa0
\nPLUS these are things that need to be understood and then taught to youth so that they can go into adult life understanding themselves and others better.
\nListen to this critically important (albeit uncomfortable) episode on men's sexuality.
\nKeep learning about this topic:
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- #148 What Wives Need to Know About Husbands' (Sex Drive) and What Men Need to Understand About Themselves \n
- #150 The Sex-quel. Follow Up Sex Episode With Rachel Denning \n
- #151 What Husbands NEED to Know About Their Wives (sex & intimacy) \n
- #174 Marriage Q&A: Intellectual Conversations, Over-Helping, & Why This Famous Sexpert is WRONG \n
- #215 A Message to Husbands: How to Actually Listen to Your Wife \n
- #224 How (& WHY) to Have Sex 3-6 Times a Week EVEN with Kids, Businesses, Homeschool, Jobs, Activities, and More \n